do you say whats on your mind or hold it in to avoid embarassing the person.
2007-11-07 04:41:29 · 33 answers · asked by rudeguest 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no usually i am straight with my words , i say whatever comes in my mind ......but thanks god i am blessed with cool mind so i havent embarassed anyone till yet
2007-11-07 17:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Dhiraj..(DJ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to hold things in because I'd rather avoid an argument or hurt feelings. Generally the things I hold in are not that important anyway. When they are, I find a way to tactfully say it.
2007-11-07 04:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by Ambi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think there has to be a balance.... you can say how you feel in a way thats not hurtful to the person... ok... say your playing a sport with this person.. um... pingpong... they are on your team and they really really stink... you could say... YOU SUCK SO BAD what the heck is wrong with you.. just hit the stinkin ball!!!! or you could quietly give them some tips here and there.. you could say.. hey man why dont you hold the paddle like this.. why dont you move your arm like this. theres always a nicer way of saying and handeling things.
2007-11-07 04:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Kyrstin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only truly say exactly what I'm thinking to a few select people, and usually I end up hurting their feelings. SO, most of the time I do NOT say what's on my mind, it can be dangerous...
2007-11-07 04:44:05 · answer #4 · answered by jatay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person and the subject matter. If I can see that what I'm about to say will really hurt the other person, I usually don't say it. But, if it's someone close to me, and they really need to have it layed on the line, I'll do it.
2007-11-07 04:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a little of both, i say whats on my mind and hold it in. Theres a time and a place for stuff like that
2007-11-07 04:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by loving life!!!!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i ate this pot cookie while i was drunk the other night and it made me think crazy *** mean things, good thing i held them in, those arent my real feelings
i have said things behind pplz backs before and i felt bad after ward! AHH LETS HEAR A FUNNY STORY!!!(relavent)
kk my sis is always talking crap about her boss. One day he pulls her aside and says "I heard from some of your coworkers taht you think im a f@g. do you have a problem with me i should know about?"
OMG
2007-11-07 04:45:31 · answer #7 · answered by daenarys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the situation
2007-11-07 04:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say what's on mind, especially to this guy I work with. I could give a rat's a** if I embarrass him or not. LOL
2007-11-07 04:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time hold it so it wont embrass the person but it depends.
2007-11-07 04:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna & Renees profile. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am HORRIBLE about always 'calling people out' and speaking my mind. I wish I could hold it in, but I can't.
2007-11-07 04:44:11 · answer #11 · answered by Whynot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋