how do i stop being gay?

Answer 1

...Habits are so hard to deal with.....They become part of us and when we turn from a habit we feel like a fish out of water......So expect all this when you give up a habit....It is painful ....You have to have a good reason to give it up..
...You have to reason with yourself and decide to go to battle with the habit and tell the habit you are going to win and not him.....Show the habit who is boss....Our flesh cries out to be pampered and fulfilled with all kinds of pleasures......Some of those pleasures are destructive and in the long run take away our happiness...
We really have to fight with all of our might to put the flesh in it's right place ...
Ok who is the strongest, our spirit or our flesh? I love to eat and tomorrow I'm staring at war with my flesh.....I'm going to slap my flesh in the face real hard....To lose weight I'm going to only give my spoiled flesh baby food to eat....Yes baby food out of a jar....spinish, carrots, green beans, and when ever my flesh says "Hey what's going on, I was enjoying myself.I want a Tbone steak, I want some ice-cream, I want some delicious BBQ"..I'm going to say "Shut up you fat thing, all you are going to get is baby food and if you keep yelling you will not get that"....I have done that before and lost 25 lbs.....But I began spoiling my flesh now I'm wanting to change things so I have to war with my flesh again.....I'm bull headed so I always win....I just have to CARE. Care enough to win. Care enough to rule my flesh....and it not rule me.....

Answer 2

When a person is gay there is no way of making them straight - nor should we want there to be. If you are gay be proud of it. Many fantastic people throughout history have been gay. If having problems with others' reactions (or your own) there are support networks that can be contacted online.

To all you people who disapprove of gays: at least 5% of people are gay, so there is a very good chance you have a gay family member. Why don't you kick them out of the house or beat them up, or just never talk to them again? Disapproving of gays puts you on the same levels as those who disapprove of women, Jews, and Blacks. We are all just people and we are all different from each other - it doesn't take a lot of intelligence to see this, but then some people aint too bright.

There is a lot of truth in the old saying that the people who have the biggest hang ups about other people being gay are usually the ones who are secretly gay, but hate it about themselves. "Love others as you love yourself" means that you need to love yourself first. Start today.

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Anyone who thinks you can change someone's sexuality is simply ignorant of the facts. It cannot be done. Please check this and get real
http://www.apahelpcenter.org/articles/article.php?id=31

Answer 3

Frankly I could not understand why any guy would be gay. Do what you want to do but I just don’t get it. Hell I don’t understand why women like men but I’m glad they do.

Women are creatures of beauty. Where guy are generally doofy looking and hairy.

Women are beautiful creatures with great everything. They have great hair, heck lines, curves, stomachs, breasts, azzes, hips, and legs that are amazing.

Guys…we have a thingy that pokes out the front…wow

In my opinion we all make choices and this is a choice. In my head I could have a completely different view of women based on experience, perceptions and whatever. I could hate women forever because Julie my girl friend in third grade decided she like bob and ate lunch with him rather than me….slut. (joke) the point is you take these experiences and social inputs and you decided that you like boinking other guys. i on the other hand met suzy who was in 4th grade and more experienced than julie; we held hands. (another joke)

Is it a decision, somthing your born with, or just a sick perversion that is addictive...I have no idea. you probubly know better than I.

Answer 4

You cannot stop being who you are and you should not want to. Society can preach to you, but all the preaching is meaningless. Every person was born to either be heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual and that is the way it is.

There is nothing wrong with being gay. I have many wonderful gay friends and they would not be the people that they are if they were not gay.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 5

don't wear pink polo and don't make out with guys it is simple! And don't say things like..."I forgot to watch the golf tornament last night! I am soo deppresed!" or the ballet preformance at shool. try swearing and get a hot girlfreind and work out at the gym and get good guns and beat the hell out of them! LOL!!!! Thanks and good luck with that! try a blue polo or green polo... actually lose the polo and wear some thing that a girl might find attractive

Answer 6

From what I can understand about it you really can't choose to be "gay'. You just are! Although there are some that claim that it's a matter of lifestyle choices.

Answer 7

unfortunately you cant stop being gay. Its all in your mind...you're attracted to guys! plain and simple.

Answer 8

stop watching porn and turn ur attention 2 women.Try 2 find a gf and have a good relationship wid her.You'll 4get being gay.

Answer 9

You want to stop probably. If you feel this is not who you really are you can stop.

Answer 10

Pick up a Bible and read the Gospel of John, read it with an open mind. Pray as you read that God will help you to understand. Go to Pastor at one of your local churches and ask him how to be delivered. He can help you!! Good luck, I know you can do this!!!