2007-11-07 03:42:10 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
nope, cause in the end, one of you is going to end up wanting the other more than just a friend. while the other person only wants the booty call. your only options are to go for the relationship or call it quits, cause friends w/ benefits never work out.
2007-11-07 03:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by reborndrummer 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think it's okay. However, both people need to talk about the situation and agree that it is just a friends with benefits deal, not something more than that. They also need to talk about what they will do if one person develops feelings beyond friendship for the other person. If people can make it work, I say great, good for them. It doesn't usually seem like it works out though because someone always winds up developing feelings for the other person, while the other person just wants sex. I think (this is just opinion only - I'm not man bashing here :)) that most women tend to see sex as both a physical and emotional connection, while most guys see it as more of a physical connection. People just need to talk it out.
2007-11-07 08:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Angelia 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No . It depends on both of you . Yes if you and the other party just wont sex with no strings attach. No if you or the other has something in mind . Friends with benefits on the most part dont work . For us it dose . We have friends with benefits . We have also lost friend and gained some to. We also have Friends that we have had sex with and dont now . We think that thy are our best friends now . What a dilemma
2007-11-08 14:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by coupleMa&Dl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know people that are happy with this type of arrangement. I also know that the arrangement used to be OK with me too. As I've gotten older I am more inclined to a "partnership" situation IF there is a sexual relationship.
I'm also quite content being alone. A relationship of any kind is not necessary. I like my life the way it is but if I become romantically involved I want it to be with a "best friend."
Peace.
2007-11-07 03:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ofcourse friends with benefits is ok. As long as both parties know what the "relationship" is all about and dont expect something more out of it. Both parties get something they want out of it and both parties are happy.
2007-11-07 04:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lorena 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, without a doubt. As long as both people are capable of keeping it what it is. Friends with benefits simply isn't a lifestyle for some people.
2007-11-07 03:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm fine with it; just make sure word doesn't get around that your benefits are there for the taking--your ugly friends will start wanting a piece of the fun. Trust me, I know what i'm talking about here!
2007-11-07 03:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
If neither of you have attachments, then it's OK. You should be very clear and honest with each other about your intentions, however, so your not giving one another the impression that it is more than what it really is.
2007-11-07 03:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Lady M 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems like an ok idea but I guess it depends on the people. Sometimes someone will get attached to the friend more than they plan to.
2007-11-07 03:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as both parties are happy, who cares what anybody else thinks. I wouldn't do it myself, but I have had friends like that and if they don't hurt anybody and they're happy I think is ok.
2007-11-07 15:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋