i am terrified that iw ill miscarry as i get easily stressed.my boyfriend likes to wind me up by tickling me!!! which makes me move suddenly. i hav told him to stop this and he says i over react. im in the early stages and was in hosp and the nurses said i have to take it easy. im i over reacting? please give advice on what not to do to avoid this. also advice on stopping being so stressed? (went into hosp as they thought it was etopic v.scary time!!!)
2007-11-07 03:19:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
dont stress relax and tell yourself you will carry the baby to term - if you stress it can cause a miscarriage.
2007-11-11 03:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Happily Hippy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving suddenly during early pregnancy will not cause miscarriage. Your baby is firmly implanted to your uterus if you are actually pregnant. However, explain to your husband about your fear of miscarriage and that you do NOT want to be tickled at this time. If he is hateful with you about it, then I would worry. I think if your husband has respect for you and concern over you and the baby he will understand. You also need to know that hormones will make you overreact. You do realize, that if you are this stressed BEFORE the baby comes, you really NEED to learn some relaxation methods before your birth. Having a newborn baby can be horribly taxing and he/she will need you to be able to keep a calm head. Go to the library and check out books on relaxation techniques. Ask a trusted friend or parent, or a relative. Best of luck to you!
2007-11-07 11:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Amy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tickling is not going to do anything to your baby. Your doctors more likely talking about going jogging every morning or playing on a trampling. sudden movements aren't going to hurt your baby. Also stress is a lot worse than being tickled. Stress actually can hurt your baby. stop thinking so much the doctor just meant that you probably shouldn't do anything to stainious like sports.
2007-11-07 11:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stressing out is only going to make things worse. If the doctors told you to take it easy then your boyfriend needs to respect that and not tickle you. You need to relax and focus on things that make you settle down like reading or drawing or something peaceful. Have your boyfriend go with you to your next doctor's appointment so the doctor can tell him what he needs to do to help you.
2007-11-07 11:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by Precious 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to focus your time on something else to keep your mind off the stress. It's hard I know I was freaked about my pregnancy until we hit 3 months. Just explain to your boyfriend that it's freaking you out and it would help if he pampered you and help you relax. Being tickled and moving will not harm the baby. Your baby is in his/her own little world and surround by amniotic fluid and will be fine. good luck.
2007-11-07 11:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Lina's Mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to stop. This is an emotional time for you and he needs to be more sensitive to that. I think maybe it would be helpful if maybe you took a few min a day to just yourself. I think some relaxation and some TLC is deff needed.
2007-11-07 11:33:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pretty & Stupid bad combo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress! Unless you have miscarried before there is no reason to just sit around and not move! Be happy! Congrads!
2007-11-07 11:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..he needs to respect your personal space...my husband always tickles me but had stopped now I am prregnant as I told him not to. You tell your boyfriend that if he tickles you again you'll scream..he should not do it at all.
2007-11-07 11:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by Daisyhill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋