In all honesty, i've had one since i was a kid. it seems the bigger the foot too, the more i get turned on by it. being gay as well has added a double-whammie effect, making me like guys feet only.
Heck, my own feet turn me on, since they're big (sz 14 wide US)
Granted, i know there are others out there with the same thing, but here in TN....its just...well, considered blasphemy. so naturally i feel guilty....but does that make me a freak?
2007-11-06 20:02:34 · 12 answers · asked by Kai Redflame 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't let other people or convention make you think you are a freak. As long as you aren't hurting anyone you are fine. Enjoy what turns you on. Enjoy the good in life.
2007-11-06 20:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Susan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Short answer, Yes. But there is nothing wrong with being a freak. You should not feel guilty about it, A foot is just a part of the body. I think a foot fetish is one of the more 'main stream' fetishes out there, there are plenty of videos about it, it was even the plot for an episode of King of The Hill.
I love woman's feet, nice smooth and oiled, I love giving foot massages, I don't get aroused though. A lot of people have different fetishes, I know a guy who immediately gets a hard on whenever he sees a (natural) redhead.
If you feel like it is blasphemy, just remember that as long as it is not illegal, and you aren't hurting anyone then there is nothing wrong with it.
2007-11-06 20:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are a freak just because you really like feet. I hate the sight of feet, but alot of people have some type of fetish. Some even more disturbing than yours...LOL.. Your friend did you wrong by running his mouth. You told him something that should have been kept between you two, oh and the girls feet that you get a hold of.... Sorry, I couldnt help myself... Any way, if you find a girl that loves for her feet to be rubbed and messed with, she wouldnt think you are a freak. Just remember, there are other people with worse fetishes than feet.
2016-05-28 05:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by amada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Freak"? What does that even mean, slightly different than what is common in a single aspect? Because then people with photographic memory, ambidexterity(two good hands) etc would be freaks too.
You merely have an interest, an ability to enjoy something most people don't... How could that be bad?
Ignore the ones who say it's "blasphemy", they probably don't know the first thing about right and wrong. Some probably just find the idea unpleasant to them, and confuse that personal unpleasantness with moral 'wrongness'.
2007-11-10 03:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Yair Jeger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not a freak, and if your a freak, then i'm and mentally deranged, because I absolutely LOVE earlobes! Having a fetish i part of being human, people say I am crazy for like a beautiful pair of earlobes over a big chest, but that's how I am.
veryone in the world is different, some only in looks, others in what turns them on, I could care less about double D breasts, but when I see a size b 16 chest, I lose it. We all ar different, and if people think your a freak for being different, then they don't deserve your friendship or to even be ion your presence. ;)
2007-11-08 16:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by The Arc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, in so far as 'freak' is kind of a put down of someone. As a Psychologist, I believe that it is not good to put yourself or others down, for what is a natural interest.
Your sexual characteristics are more highly focussed on feet, which is a common feature for people, for whatever reason(s).
If you find that others, in TN or elsewhere, are being judgemental and condemnatory, then I'd restrict information to others, only telling people that you trust and respect - potentially only partners. It is important that you don't get knocked and put down by others - and especially yourself - to allow your self-esteem and confidence to remain as high as it would healthily be.
When you say 'naturally i feel guilty', I would disagree, as this is not a natural thing to feel - you have just conditioned yourself to respond this way. You can just as easily learn a new way to respond to the judgement of others, one that is not damaging to you.
It's probably wiser to seek out someone who will have reciprocal interests, and the internet could be a useful place to start. I've never been to TN, though have visited much of the US (I live in England), so am unable to give you any locally specific advice on where to meet others. But, I do wish you well, and hope that you get out of the 'blame' culture and develop your self-respect etc.
Good luck! Rob
2007-11-06 22:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Rob E 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No , but I think you should develop more apppreciation of the shape of the toes instep etc to fully appreciate the asthetics , size isnt everthing as I think you may have heard before !
2007-11-06 21:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, I am a lifestyle femdomme and let me tell you- you have the most normal of the fetishes. This is something you can safely enagae in with willing partners. Id advise you do so. :)
2007-11-08 07:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by jessica s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I have an unhealthy horror of feet. That is probably just as unusual as your love of them. Either way it's our choice and so long as we don't hurt anyone there's nothing wrong with it, either way.
2007-11-06 20:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But if you run around forcing people to take their shoes off.....well then maybe.
2007-11-06 20:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Think! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋