and if your not sure that must mean not yet am i right or wrong,
ps not me i like my job to much and just the two of us
2007-11-06 18:35:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I´m a 32 year old childless man, and I feel I will never be ready to have one.
2007-11-07 08:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Yabran Tariga 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...I don't think anyone is ever ready. I know I wasn't. It was the biggest thing that ever happened to me. I had to totally change my life. No more parties, no more staying out all hours, can't just hang out with your friends when your a mom. Had to get a real job. Don't get me wrong I don't regret getting pregnant actually I think it was the best thing that happened to me. I don't know where I would be if I hadn't...maybe Jail? And now even though I have a newborn at home which is my third by the way, I know what to do and how to raise him but still am I ready. Growing old is mandatory, Growing up is optional.
2007-11-07 02:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by ~p♥kes~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can ever be sure. There is no right or wrong time to have a baby, they just happen sometimes and take you quite by surprize, but they are the best experience in the world.
I think that if you waited till the "right time" you'd be waiting forever.
The best time for a baby, in my opinion is between 25 and 35.
2007-11-07 02:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by Orphelia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew it was the right time when all I could think about was having a baby.
We waited until we were married and after 10 months of TTC we know have a 6 month old little girl and I am 3 months pregnant with #2.
2007-11-07 02:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when someone is ready for a baby they're stomach starts getting bigger and they go to the doctor for a checkup and then they find they are having a baby, and if you're not sure you're having a baby, try confirming it with the doctor and asking if or if not you're actually having a baby, because you may not yet be having a baby or you may be having a baby, you never know!
2007-11-07 02:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by Dreaming♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U have to make many adjustments in life. U r ready for the baby when u can afford it without much of disturbance in your present life.
2007-11-07 03:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by sandeep m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment I like the fact that if my husband and I want to do anything on a whim we can and we don't have to arrange to get a sitter or anything like that.
However I think that you just know when the time is right, and if you are questioning it you are not ready
2007-11-07 02:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself whether a child is going to change your life or not. And the moment you feel that it is going to fill your life with happiness, it means you are ready. It always helps to speak with your partener about it.
2007-11-07 02:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel ready that the love you share as two can handle beoming three (or more) and you can financially be responsible for a new life, then go for it!
2007-11-07 02:41:08 · answer #9 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the both of you are financially stable and are fully aware that with a baby, a lot of sacrifices have to be made.
2007-11-07 03:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by orange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋