it is wrong to inlove to your staff even i am married already? but i am not happy in my husband?

Answer 1

Wrong on two counts.........NEVER have a relationship at work. If you worked for me you would be fired. Second, being unhappy means you get divorced, not run around behind his back.

Answer 2

It is normal to fall for somebody even if you're married already. But, when you express it to the person you're falling in love with, that becomes a problem. If you're not happy with your husband, find out why. You two can go to a vacation, sit down and talk about it. Give yourselves the chance to be happy with each other again. But, if you failed after a set time, you must resolve the issue. Remember, it's better not to cheat because you don't want to be cheated right?

Answer 3

If you mean going to them talking about your problems .? yes it will bring more problems.. There will be ones who can't trust what you have told them to keep it quiet.

There will also be others saying oh you should just kick him to the curb or get rid of him for someone else. without them actually being in the picture. Its easier for others to give you short and wrong advise.

You'd be better talking it out with your hubby first if he's really not interested and he is that bad then maybe confide in one trustful girlfriend who would be good at giving advise. Some people out there are a bit ditzy and you can't explain things to them as they are not so intouch in that area.

But I wouldn't be crying on everyones shoulder thats not going to solve whats going on in your private life. Yeah it may help you purge so you can get things off your chest but you have to think at what price if some of these so called friends are fly by night kind of people.

Good luck

Answer 4

I am confused involved with employee in physical relationship, or involve staff in lying to cover up your adultery they know is going on?

Either -fire gal

For employee not professional and unless you are boss and head honcho owner of company don't think that others do not know and it won't hurt your future employment and reputation.

Other scenario-They have no respect for you. They are doing it for foddler entertainment to watch the soap opera. Do not think one will not use knowledge to their gain in the work place or to manipulate you by threatening to out your dalliances to hubby. Oh my such a quandary.

Some wise/crass person once stated Don't #$%& where you eat. And meant it for a multitude of figurative interpretations.

Good luck

Answer 5

Yes I think it is wrong if you are married, but I do unserstand. "If that make since" I have been there and done that. It was better for me when I left my wife and followed up with that person. I was happy and much better off.

Answer 6

YES, you should fool around with anyone that you work with that will allow you too. That way not only would you possibly lose your job you'd end up divorced. See, then you could move on and find a whole new life.
Cool.

Answer 7

what a silly excuse!you cheat coz u r not happy?no one is happy all the time in their life.what does yo husband do to make u unhappy?wot have u done for yo self to make yo self happy/or silly Q u cheat!!!its either u r in or out!not here n there! be a responsible spouse and sort yoself n marriage out! ooooohhhh

Answer 8

Just think, how would you feel if your husband does the same because he wasn't happy in you. You will get your answer.

Answer 9

what do you mean??? you get involved with one of your employee and you are married and not happy with your husband. Well, better get a divorce before messing up everything.

Answer 10

YEP - wrong
people that you work with - often we admire
and fool ourselves into believing that it's love

losing mine after 26 years

I will never love again