okay,
my dad brought his girlfriend in da house. she was bein a B**** so i told her to f*** off and my dad heard me. now he told me that he wuz gonna deal with me when she leave in 3 hours. an he said ' u betta have a belt ready 4 me to' . now im scared to see wut he gunna do..
sum1 help meeeeeee plzzzzz
2007-11-06 16:16:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no my moms dead, and i already tryed talkin to my dad he said "thats bullsh**", nd now imma get it 10x worse
2007-11-06 16:32:14 · update #1
no my moms dead, and i already tryed talkin to my dad he said "thats bullsh**", nd now imma get it 10x worse
2007-11-06 16:33:01 · update #2
Go ask your dad for permission to apologize for what you SAID to her and then let him and her know why you felt she was being mean to you. Tell them you want to get along and need their help so that you all can have a good relationship. Say it in a calm way and sound like you mean it.
2007-11-06 16:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize.
Maybe you have to take the punishment, and not say fukoff to people that are bigger or more powerful than you in future, or will get people really angry.
If you run away for a day to a friends house. That might be best if your dad's every actually been violent and hurt family. If he is very abusive (I mean very) then maybe contact the police or social services. If he's just disiplinning you,, then try talking to him first and take the punishment if he won't listen.
Been there and done that, belt and all.
2007-11-06 16:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by instantdegrees_scam 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you listen the time period no balls, it has one other that means to each and every individual. No balls to a few folks method being scared to get harm, or do some thing bodily brave. To others it method being an avoider, keeping off clash, or war of words, or manipulating alternatively of confronting. Most of my crisis in existence has come now not from honestly being an avoider, however from being a shy individual, and being obvious as an avoider. I do not feel folks have got to discover extra guts, considering no person, adding me, has guts always, everyday. I'm only a man with a foul social distrust and suffering, and a few folks see it as worry of war of words, and as a man or women, I care what they suppose greater than I fake to care approximately them.
2016-09-05 12:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by carrii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, to everyone who says you were out of line, sometimes its right to defend yourself and tell someone off depending on the situation, however you didn't give enough information to pass judgment. Second, if your dad really hits you with a belt then he doesn't deserve to be a parent. And third, if you feel you are being mistreated bring it up with a councilor at school, or another authority that you can talk to about this issue.
2007-11-06 18:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tyler 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
get out of that house now! go to a friends place or a place which he doesn't know about. if he calls there just tell your friends to tell him that you're not there and if he comes round either hide somewhere or exit through the back door or make your friends parents protect you somehow. go to the police as well. my mum was abusive towards me all the time and nobody believed me about it, so i left and now live with my best friend. good luck. if he hits you.... hit him 10 times harder.
2007-11-06 22:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by trace s 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, first of all you shouldn't have cussed at her. That just shows immaturity on your part. Get your words right too. All that ghetto talk is dumb. It makes you seem like trash. Take your punishment and go on. If she's acting ignorant just walk away from the issue and go into your room or outside or where ever you got to go to get away. You showing restraint shows wisdom on your part. No since in getting as low as she does.
2007-11-06 16:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by WWJD 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You really shouldn't have said what you said. To tell anyone to f*** off is EXTREMELY rude and disrespectful, and you deserve a punishment of some sort.
Apologize to your dad's girlfriend. That might help a bit. Then, maybe you can try to talk your dad into just grounding you or something.
I really don't know what to tell you. Next time, think before you speak.
2007-11-06 16:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
you need to go somewhere safe you and your dad need help i am sorry if you get taken away but it will keep you alive in the long run
2007-11-07 13:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, baby! and quick! I wish you the best of luck! Go seek help, dont take his crap, its not good for you if he does this alot. Please tell someone you trust that can help you! and I'm very sorry about your mum.
xoxo friend!
2007-11-07 13:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you better run and run fast..............
Ask him if you can apologize to this lady let her know that what ever she did to you offended you and that you did not know how to react at the moment and you just lashed out on her and that you apologize for it.
2007-11-07 13:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by Dee R. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋