do you fall more in love the longer you're married....or less? how do you stay together? afterall it's a 50

Question

percent marriage/divorce rate. do you just keep going, anyway? thanks

Answer 1

More if you both love and respect each other. You must be kind loyal and understanding of each other. Sometimes a marraige is 50/50 and sometimes it is 70/30. Sometimes you have to set the example and sometimes you are humbled. Treat the spouse as you would want to be treated and expect the same in return....further more accept nothing less.

Answer 2

The first few years of a relationship are much different than the rest. The feelings you have, the newness of the relationship, the butterflies you always get when thinking of your love, all that happens naturally.
How you stay married forever is to remind yourself that love is a choice. It's not always a "feeling." You have to choose to love this person no matter what and they have to believe in the same principle too.
Falling in love is a completely different thing than staying in love. Practicing forgiveness is how you stay married. Before you start to point out all the negatives about a spouse, remember that they live with our faults too.
I learned all I know from the bible. Love your spouse as Jesus loved his people. Forgive or you won't be forgiven. And marry a person who also believes in the same principles as you do, or if you are a Christian, marry another Christian.

Answer 3

Love is a tough word to choose to say FALL into... Love...is something that you should be more willing to give than expect a result from...Falling in seems to expect something for??? If you love someone and set no conditions on that love your love life will grow. If you love someone and expect rewards for loving, then you will only be disappointed. Divorce rate has to do with people marrying too early and not truly understanding unconditional love.

Answer 4

i think the bond becomes greater the love becomes greater.i think marriage is an agreement an understanding that 1 is getting inot a lifelong committment nto a statistic btu a relationship that should go on . its something you go into having an nuderstanding that it is never perferct but we strive for perfection no matter how many fall-outs we might have!i think love gets its strengths from such an agreement and understanding

Answer 5

you may*t understand a pair of individual in a minute! It takes a lot longer than that! each and every so often you fall in love with the belief of falling in love...and there are nonetheless some adults obtainable that confuse intercourse and love..

Answer 6

Depends on how you both handle the relationship well...And how you can cope up with it,No matter how long you've been married...As long as the 'Love' and 'respect' with each other,still there....You can always survive it,If both partners are willing to cooperate and talk and willing to face "trials" and accept it...But,people changed in a certain time...So it's up to us on how to work things out....Some does survive,some doesn't....But life has always "Ups" and "Downs"...

Answer 7

it doesnt matter about marriage! love is something that is totally seperate! you could be goin out with the person and be in love! but love does get deeper longer the person is there for you and all! doing everything possible to make you happy and is there!

Answer 8

The longer a couple is together, the stronger the bond. It's altogether different........somewhat like an appendage. ;)

Answer 9

MORE! If you are the right couple! That's how it has turned out for us - the love has grown and deepened over the years, and so has the lust!

Answer 10

all i can say is my wife and i love each other more and more each day, we've been together for 20 years and its beautiful.