so yeah. I am 16 years old and i think i am pregnant. i dont know what to do. like i am suppose to be starting my period sometime this week. but my breast are REALLY sore. and my stomach has been killing me since like 4 or 5 days after me and that guy had sex. so idk what to do. SOMEONE PlEASE HELP ME!
2007-11-06 16:02:34 · 10 answers · asked by kayla marie 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
First, wait until you miss your period before you freak out. You're 16, it's flu season, and your still growing, so your breasts may just be getting bigger because of a growth spurt and you could have the flu and wouldn't it be horrible to get all upset over nothing?
If you do miss your period, go and get a test right away. You can go to a free clinic (like planned parenthood or pregnancy resource center) and get a free test or go to the dollar store and get a test for a dollar (they work just as well as the other expensive ones). If you have a positive test you need to tell your parents and your boyfriend, and start seeing a doc. If you have a negative test but still don't get your period wait a couple weeks and then test again. If it's still negative go see a doc and get checked out.
The moral of this whole experience though-whether you are pregnant or not-is that sex has big and scary consequences and that if you decide to have sex that you need to keep yourself as protected as possible....but realize even birth control isn't 100%.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-06 16:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by lovelymrsm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to relax, because the more stress you put your body through, the more it can seem like you are pregnant. What I mean is stress can make you not have a period at all. the only thing that ever eased my mind when I thought I was pregnant was to go and buy an at home pregnancy test and find out. If you are, at least you know early to start taking care of your body for your baby and if you are not then at least you know. You are young, take care of yourself and know that you are going to be okay.
2007-11-06 16:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry until you actually miss your period. If your period is a week late take a pregnancy test. If it' positive you need to talk to an adult. Talk to your parents if you fell like they'll understand or contact someone at your local Planned Parenthood if not. PP offers counselors to help you deal with your pregnancy and decide your best course of action. If you have an older FEMALE relative/friend that you can trust they would also be someone good to speak with.
www.plannedparenthood.org
2007-11-06 16:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think ur pregnant u can go n do the pregnancy test or go to the client and get check out? If ur 4 or more days late u could be pregnant but who knows sumtimes u could get ur period late??Dont leave it too late do the pregnancy test.
2007-11-06 16:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by lekababe01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a home pregnancy test. Once you have the results, you'll know better what to do. No need worrying, unless you have something to worry about. If you are pregnant, you need to tell your parents. It will probably be one of the hardest things you'll ever do in your life, but it is also something that you will not be able to hide from them for long.
If you aren't pregnant. Remember to be smarter the next time.
2007-11-06 16:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by Barrie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you speak with an adult. If you feel that you can't speak with your parents try a counselor at school or even one of your friends mom. I don't think you should get your advice from a bunch of strangers on the Internet. I'm sorry don't be mad at me for saying that but my daughter is your age and I would rather her talk to me. Good luck
2007-11-06 16:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sheri2271 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a man, and believe that all life is holy. You still have rights, and one of those rights is called terminating the pregnancy. (stopping it). There are several safe ways to do this..
To check whether you have to tell your parents as well as some numbers to call:
http://www.positive.org/Resources/consent.html
Good luck.
2007-11-06 16:20:45 · answer #7 · answered by Sam K 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just relax. wait until you are days late on your period and if you dont get your period go to your dr and explain to your dr and get a pregnancy test done
2007-11-06 16:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by megleg88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is wait to take a test
and i dont think your ready next time think b4 you do
and i guess he doesnt mean that much if you say :
me and that guy had sex
your deff not ready but your own fault nexxt time wear protection and take birth control
2007-11-06 16:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by brunettbabe411 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean what to do???
Wait and take a test and if you are... prepare yourself to become a mother!
2007-11-06 16:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by 90304 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋