Our semi's friday, and we're going as friends and i asked if she felt awkward that it was ok that she could tell me, and she was saiid "no, we (her and her friends are all going as friiends...but I was hoping it would bring us back together after not being together for so long....we have not hung out. I just feel that since school started she did not really get to see me the way i was out of school mode than in school mode, which was a huge difference this fall compared to when we first dated last spring.....when we hung out more off campus.
2007-11-06 15:23:31 · 4 answers · asked by Prudential Intern 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
today she complimented how she liked me haircut i got for the semi today, and i kinda blushed and tensed up the whole time....i just don't want her to know i still have feelings for her. And she asked "Is everything ok? you look really tense today..." but i answered really quickly "yep! i'm good!" and all day in the rest of our classes...I didn't talk to her....I just wished I knew if I still have a chance in getting back with her or something......I feel like i'm in a middle ground....
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i'm not sure if i should buy flowers for her, despite her friends will see it....or does she really feel we're going as friends-friends and i shouldn't do it....i don't want to make it awkward at all..
2007-11-06 15:23:46 · update #1
we went out for a little half a year, and i was her first b/f she's ever had...and we're like several classes together and partners for them.....i try not to make things awkward...but somehow i feel like i do....do i still have a chance? what should i do?
2007-11-06 15:24:15 · update #2
what kind of reaction am i supposed to expect if she still has feelings for me after giving her flowers?
2007-11-06 15:24:29 · update #3
To be honest I would probably go to the semi as her friend and see what happens while you're there.
I think buying her a corsage (the little flower pin or something like it - they make them so girls can wear them on their wrists too) is a lovely idea and can't be taken the wrong way.
I think you need to talk to her during the night without making it a heavy conversation - this is her semi too & she will want to have a fun night, not one arguing with her ex.
That having been said maybe toward the end of the formal you could ask her to dance to something slow(ish), look her in the eye, and just tell her you miss her. If she wants to get back together with you this is her chance to tell you, but if she doesn't, don't get upset or you will push her away.
She's obviously still in tune with you being that she noticed you were tense when you were. And if she noticed that, she knows you weren't completely honest when you said you were fine - just put it on the line, either way it's best to know for sure.
Good luck!
2007-11-06 16:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should go for it! let her know that you still have feelings for her write it in letter form or send the flowers the best gifts are from the heart you probally will never know if she had the same feeling for you if you never try
i know you say you feel awkward around her so why dont you start fresh take your time and really get to know her also talking in general will help phone calls ect.
2007-11-06 15:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by music iz my life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short, so I did not read your novel. But I still feel I have some valuable advise.
Descend your testicles and move on man!
Good luck.
2007-11-06 15:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋