I am so down and out now..im not very used to this, should I feel this way?

Question

I would appreciate at least a few opinions cause im just generally..agrivated and thinking really low..I want opinions from people with a clearer perspective..someone who can see the obvious in this situation. I haven't had a guy in a while. I haven't gotten a number or email in years so I am not used to it. This guy i like is the host (21yrs old) at a casino. We've stared at eachother for weeks now. I went to the casino saturday and some woman won 2000$ next to me..that broke the 'ice' between me and him. Since he was watching how much she won. We 3 talked. 20 min later I looked back and him and fem employees talking to him were staring at me. 2min later he comes up to me..lowers his head next to me and said " I don't do this sort of thing..that often and i know you probly hear this from alot of guys but, *pulls out his card* this is my email and you can write me if you would ever want to go out sometime." ( he is the host *why he has a card*) He came up again smiling to me and

watched me play, talked to me..then there was like a uncomfortable silence. I said to him "ya, a security guard said it would be tiring putting a complimentary smile on all day lol" and he said "No, no its' a real smile *looks at the floor* I am just a nice guy". The next day (sunday) I emailed him..to sum it up i said (hi, how are you, dropped in to say hi and that yes i would like to go out sometime^_^). And I still haven't heard from him and it is tuesday. The email on his card is [e-mail] so it is not a personal email. He said saturday was his 'friday' so i assume he had 2 days off, might not be able to check until he comes back? Or he is waiting for me to come back to the casino to respond? (I go there once or twice a week to gamble). And I am really hoping he didn't reconsider me, didn't do anything to make him tho.He is hot, but not "i know im sexy" hot. He is kind,curteous,polite. Took him 3 weeks to give me his email so I don't think he is a player.

I just really hope I hear opinions cause my judgement sucks LOL.

Answer 1

Get to know him. You don't see any red flags yet, right? Sounds okay so far. See him for lunch if you want to take it slow.

Answer 2

Give him a coupe more days to respond. I dont know why he would have given you his business card if he didnt plan on you contacting him through email or whatever. So wait for him. If he doesnt respond and you want to know why then yes, go back there and make a conversation again. Tell him you emailed him and he should email you back. and from that point its up to him. Good luck :)

Answer 3

You don't think he's a player but he pulled that line out of storage lol when he approached you. I would just give him some time and wouldn't jump to conclusions. why he would give you a job email address i have no idea. maybe he's been busy and hasn't checked his email yet. hopefully he'll get in contact good luck.

Answer 4

Go back to the casino and talk to him. It is so much better to talk face to face, then you can see their expressions. If he is a player, you will know soon enough.