So my boyfriends proposed to me and I absolutely had to tell, but I'm also here for advice and your thoughts.
When should we get married, and where do you recomend? I've always wanted a Disneyworld wedding, but we want to do it right after I graduate..so should we wait longer, and save the money, or get married and have our vows renewed there in the future..what do y'all think?
2007-11-06 15:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it all varies from person to person. i want a backyard type wedding with only a few people there. if the disneyland wedding is really important to you then wait for it. where, when, what type is all an individual thing. everyone wants something different and their advice will reflect that. go talk to your man and figure out what is most important to you
2007-11-06 15:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by avalon552 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stitch:
Wow! You must be so very excited!
Are U serious when you write:
"what do y'all think?" (Advice & Thoughts)
Have your New Business Partner, BF~
read this post today!
Getting Married? Right out of school?
NO Way Jose!
Wait about 2-4 +years to establish a
FIRM Foundation for your Future!
Forget about Disney! Have a REALITY
Wedding. Churches are for this!
Marriage is NOT a Fantasy World!
It is a Legal Business Contract
between your man & you!
In a few years ~if you feel the same way
about Disney, you can always do your
renewed vows later.
Right now~ you do NOT Really know
your man. Heck~ he probably doesn't
know himself, or YOU, yet!
Our brains are NOT Developed until we
are over the age of 25 + years! Are you
or your bf over 25 +years old?
Do BOTH of you have a Marketable
JOB Skill to sustain your SECURE Life
together? Do BOTH of you have a
profitable job so that money worries
will NOT tear your marriage apart?
What Educational Degrees do you have?
Forget about babies until you have
1/4 of a million dollars BANKED!
(at least $250,000+)
Do you OWN a house now?
Wait until you are over 30 to get
pregnant! Tell that boy to BAG mr happy!
*& Don't you dare go to Disney with a
baby in your belly~ & expect your life
to be your personal Dream World! ok?
Have you scheduled Pre-Marital
Counseling yet ~with a Trained
Professional Counselor ?
Do it ASAP! What are your Perimeters
& Rules & Regs for your man? What
does expect from you?
If you do all of the above advice here~
you have about a 50/50 % chance
of REMAINING Married the 2nd
year of your life together!
Oh! Get a Pre-Nup with an Attorney~
before you sign your Wedding/
Business contract!
Congrats!
I wish you luck!
You will need it~ Stitch!
50/50% odds are tough~
IN REAL LIFE!
2007-11-07 00:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said Graduate.. You do mean college ...right? If not why so young? Marriage is awesome but it isnt a romantic occasion it is a "Commitment " between you and your husband. You need to be abosolutely sure because this is a very big decision and if it doesn't work out it can be a costly one.Marriage isn't always gonna be a bed of roses and at times you will think..What was I thinking. Please make sure that this is really want you both want and when times get hard rememeber why you fell for each other in the first place and all should be fine. I am a parent so the "after I graduate " part concerns me.
2007-11-06 23:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by bella s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally, like summer weddings, but not morning or noon weddings; rather evening weddings or late afternoon. I think outside weddings were you actually have a view -ocean, lake or mountains, depending on where you live- are very nice. When you say "after I graduate", is this College or high school? If it's high school...oh, no! I think you should wait a while. I, too, got married right after graduation and now I know I should've waited...but I guess we all must learn on our own, right? Congratulations and good luck.
2007-11-06 23:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by MiaMonique 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on what is most important to you. the fairy tale wedding or getting married right after graduation. if you really want to get married as soon as you graduate then you can always go back later and renew your vows like you said, but if it more important to you to have the real fairy tale wedding then by all means, wait a while longer and have the wedding! its a day you will never forget! it will be with you always!
2007-11-06 23:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do wherever and whenever you want... just do not go into crazy debt to get it done.
Good luck and enjoy!
2007-11-06 23:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED IF YOU NEED TO GET ON A PUBLIC FORUM TO ASK SUCH A QUESTIONS THAT ONLY AFFECTS YOUR LIVES...NOT OURS. YOU SHOULD MAKE THIS DECISION ACCORDING TO YOUR WISHES...NOT WHAT OTHER'S THINK.
2007-11-06 23:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations!!. Do as your fiance and you think is the best for both of you.
2007-11-06 23:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Idon'tlivehere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋