What do I do with my husband?? All he ever wants to do is hump. He says he don't ask for anything else in our marriage and that's all that makes him happy. What should I do?
2007-11-06 15:11:14 · 19 answers · asked by cgswifey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have been married for 14 months. I am 38 and he is 29.
2007-11-06 15:18:20 · update #1
try to get into it... sex is great and its good for you. however never have sex if you dont want it. try to find ways to get yourself interested. try games or toys. also tell your guy that he can ask all he wants but its a mutual thing and he wont get it unless you both want it
2007-11-06 15:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by avalon552 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him to grow up and stop being so selfish. A marriage takes both people being willing to make sacrifices.
Other than that, there is not much you can do. You cannot change him, no matter what you say or do. He will always be himself.
Remember that you willingly agreed to "for better or for worse." If you still need comfort, read some other people's questions and you will realize that you brand of "for worse" probably is not so bad.
Good luck.
2007-11-06 23:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'll trade.. my husband never wants to have sex! But seriously, explain that even though that's all he asks for there is still the things that have to be done,asked for or not. Doesn't he see that you have a home to care for (kids?), laundry, cooking not to even bring up if you work. Maybe he doesn't realize that you have more to do that expends energy and are tired sometimes!
2007-11-10 23:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by suzieg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats all that makes him happy in your relationship then you might want to consider getting him a cardboard cut-out of yourself with a hole stratigically placed, slip it in bed with him in the middle of the night , have your bags packed and hit the road .
2007-11-06 23:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by kindablue99 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds as though he is easy to please. Most of us want our wives to be friends, to cook for us, to help us organize things, to tell us we are great and attractive, to take care of us when we are sick, help with the kids----if humping is all he asks for you should get with the program!
2007-11-06 23:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your husband has a serious issue....I would hand him a bottle of lotion, a movie and tell him HAVE AT IT. JK...I think for a guy like that he needs therapy. What's the compulsion with sex is what you need to find out.
2007-11-06 23:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think you are lucky unless of course you aren't having your Emotional needs met by him. Communication is the best. Talk things out that bother you.
2007-11-06 23:30:36 · answer #7 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you do not enjoy sex with your husband. First, you need to learn to enjoy the sex so that you will not mind pleasureing him.
2007-11-06 23:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with him. Maybe you could change things up a bit if it is getting boring.... watch a porn movie together, lotions, massage, get looped and crazy, etc...
2007-11-06 23:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by Frenchafied 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. He obviously has no concern for how you feel. Women don't always "want to do it". I hate to say this but act real excited and moan and groan alot and maybe he can do his "business" faster if he thinks he's satisfying you. You say he want to "hump" so I guess he doesn't give a damn how you feel. Someimtes we girls just have to fake it really good to get it over and done with. Then you can get back to your favorite T.V. show!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-06 23:17:00 · answer #10 · answered by kadkadkad 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋