If you lose all care in life nothing means anything?

Question

If you lose all care in life nothing means anything to you nothing affects you physically or mentally pain wise even when you try to, everyone you ever loved killed themselfs and blamed you for what you did and how you werrent there "suicide note/letter" you have no hopes no dreams no wants really what should you do (DONT SAY THEROPY OR COUNSELLING THAT IS NOT A OPTION)

Answer 1

I was actually like this. Just try to get through everyday. It's hard but eventually things will get better. Nobody can tell you the right thing you have to do it for yourself. Trust me life can be so much better, it's worth the suffering. Just hold on.

Answer 2

Worrying is a very bad thing to get into because it brings you into a downward spiral that has a great depth. Suicide is a thing that no one is to blame but the victim. No matter how bad it gets there is always tomorrow. And this too will pass.
Feeling nothing is a thing that is telling you to do something that is challenging and interesting. The dogma of isolation can be used to find what you really are. Nothing is more depressing than sulking in that mire of depression, I should know because I have clynical depression brought on by PTSD. I have been through a vast myrad of pills and therapy, nothing worked for me until I got out there and forced myself to look for something that was challenging and interesting that would make me stand out and be counted. (guitar, singing, and writing songs and poetry). Now I am into school and for the first time I love it. Absorbing knowledge and loving it. I have ADHD and the reading is tough but I make myself sit there and do it. NOT EASY.
If someone is blaming you for the actions of others they are not being rational. Get away from them and let them drown in their own little world. Gees, it is not an easy thing to see someone take their own life and sometimes people look for answers in their own fantacies. Don't let that get in your head. And don't try to blame them either. Turning that table is not a solution. Time is the only solution there.
In closing I will stress once again to dig deep within yourself and think what you want to do that you are not doing now. Change the picture. It is up to you, no one will do that for you and some will try to keep you down as long as they know they can. One thing that helped me a great deal was to read about interpersonal communication. It gave me a window to myself in the mistakes I have made in my dealings with other and how I let that affect me. Now I have become more aware of the intentions of others and look for the people that are not toxic to me.

Answer 3

nicely, My existence have been given A Lil complicated Too, A Lil collectively as back. while My Brother Died ANd each little thing. not long After That i found out That My Dad Wasn't Killed the way i grew to become into informed He grew to become into. yet hello, i certainly do not plenty stable advice For You, As issues like that are quite annoying To recover from. i'm hoping existence gets greater easier For You.

Answer 4

How about getting in touch with your spiritual side, pick up a Bible and start reading the Gospel of John in the New Testament. I know this is not R&S but your question to me only leaves one answer, Jesus said that he came that you might have life and that you might have it more abundantly. Start reading it, in your position what have you got to lose, Sunday go to church, and ask God to give you a sign, ask him to show you if he is real, He did me. Good luck!!!

Answer 5

Are you that one?
Fear not the world - it does no harm on it's own,
only fear your own actions, your own fears, your own wants.
Do not water down your life to nothing - think not that God has denied you His love, His life in Christ.
I dare you to live clean, to live right, to live as God gives to you, my friend, that love to love all the world whereever you go, and do not think of the past - for He Who is love will give to all those things which He only in His great love can give.
Never believe that LIFE is over. It exists, whether on this planet or in the netherworld. It LIVES, as Christ lives., He can give that which you desire.
Never fear. Never live as though you were less than HIS LOVE- or you would have left your post. oh soldier of Christ.
Give as you never gave to all before, love as though it paid all dividends and cost you all things,
give your all, cost you all all things, give all things and God will grant you His wish, of your entrance into Heaven, with a great throng behind you, and you will then have earned that right to call yourself worthy of His will.
God bless your hopes, and that greatest fear removed - your fear of death. What cost is it really? We continue. We all know it. God has said it, and we know this is not the only life we will live.
But waste it and it can cost you much such sorrow - like giving away a billion dollars to those homeless drunks who think nothing of drinking and smoking it away - all your efforts all wasted like it cost you nothing.
Make it cost you yourself much. Make your life as though it cost Christ everything, and you your every future.
Only then will you be happy.
Bless you my dear friend. May we meet soon that I can answer your wierd questions of life !

Answer 6

learn to love u and figure out what good things like positive affirmations to give yourself good luck

Answer 7

hey.there are community centers. and hotlines.they help u support u.it works.try it and u'll see