If your wife says she likes sex with you but she shows very little interest in having sex, what would you think?
2007-11-06 15:00:23 · 14 answers · asked by cgswifey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the first thing i would want to know is do you have kids? does she work out side of the home? does she have any medical problems, any that require medication?
believe me i have had the same problem. maybe she is just too tired. maybe a medical condition or medication is to blame.
if she says she enjoys sex with you, trust her. but remember you are in a marriage, it requires communication. you both need to talk and you both need to listen.
i have been married for over 27 years. i have 2 kids, one with cerebral palsy. my husband was in the navy for over 19 years, i spent a lot of time being both mom and dad. i also have had 2 heart attacks starting in 2002. i am tired. i love sex with my husband, most times though it requires "jump starting".
let me tell you there is nothing sexier than a spouse wanting to talk about how you both can work together and what each other needs. the intimacy from just talking-true to your heart- that this brings helps not only the friendship relationship of your marriage but also the passionate relationship you have with each other. knowing what you each need really does help. i hope you can relate to this and one another!
Best of luck to you!
2007-11-06 15:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by katiecoo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If we were talking about my wife, I would be very concerned about her health if she showed very little interest in sex.
But all women are different and one must consider the person and their nature when trying to decide if something is out of the norm.
2007-11-06 23:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is stressed and or just doesnt have a very high sex drive. try new things and iniate sex. some women just arent up for sex very often. talk to her and see if there is anything that would get her in the mood easier or something you could do to make it better. try giving her a good long massage first to relax her.
2007-11-06 23:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by avalon552 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I were a married man, I would think that my wife wasn't enjoying it, or I was doing something wrong. I would ask her to be honest about what she likes/dislikes so that I could please her.
That is what my husband would do, but I'm just upfront about whether I like something or not. I would assume the woman isn't enjoying something he does, but doesn't want to hurt his feelings.
2007-11-06 23:08:16 · answer #4 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a low sex drive. Maybe she is tired.
2007-11-06 23:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she may actually be tired or she could have something wrong and therefore not want to talk about it maybe her hemoriods are hanging out its possible there are so many things and yes she could very much love you and stuff it also could be menopause time to. it brings alot of aniexty to this situation.
2007-11-10 23:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. that is puzzling. Some women like sex, but just are not aggressive---they don't like to initiate things, but will accede to copulation.
2007-11-06 23:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she's lying!
she just don't want he's man to feel upset when he said no to a sex..
2007-11-06 23:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by aNna cHix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm maybe husband needs a shower?
maybe she is lying?
but why? something bad in her past, but she is trying to please anyway?
maybe she is gay?
maybe she is really a man who used to be woman?
2007-11-06 23:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by teritaur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to give you hints that she wishes to be romanced more and that is HOW you gonna get to see her naked more often.
2007-11-06 23:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋