Two weeks ago my boyfriend of 18months went to stay with his mother in the town right next to us. He said it would be easier until he got his DL back. I was driving him to work everyday and picking him up. 60 miles for on trip everyday. I thought at first that it would be okay because it would be easier for a while. I also thought that he would stay with her a few days and then come home for a few days. He has only come home for 2 days in that last 2 weeks. I asked him to come home this past weekend to spend time with me even though he had to work. Thursday is my birthday and I just thought it would be nice. He told me sat that he was unsure what time he would get off but that he would call. He never did. I found out he got off fairly early and went and stayed at his cousins house. I went over to his cousins house on sunday and it was not pretty. As he walked away I told him if he did i would have my anser and it was over. I don't want to lose him but what should i do
2007-11-06 14:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like he wants you to break up with him.
2007-11-06 14:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying about a guy that obviously doesn't love or care about you as much as you do him? Would you do those things to him that he's done to you??? Probably not. Don't you think he owes you the same respect? I think you're doing too much for this unappreciative guy. You need to forget about him. Usually guys that act like this get worse over time. I mean COME ON! He lied to you and stayed at his cousins, that's = to saying YOU JUST WEREN'T THAT IMPORTANT.
No girl...walk away! Better yet....be glad HE walked away!
2007-11-06 23:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by grneyedgrly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him walk and not just for the reason of him being an uncaring person, but I question why he lost his DL and that might be more of a reason not to hang out with him. He might not be a very good person if you look deep enough. Look deeper at him, outside of love what makes him a person worthy of you? I'd think not much but Good Luck
2007-11-06 22:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is already done. He walked. Now you need to move on.
Why would you want a BF that can't even keep his DL? What kind of life would you have with him?
2007-11-06 22:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Hubby . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you his answer when he walked away.
2007-11-06 22:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋