married life?

Question

my wife and I have been together 5 years. Over the last year her sex drive has really gone down. She is in her early 30's I heard that women in their 30 had a excelled sex drive but this hasn't happened for her. Any suggestions to bring the spark back???

Answer 1

Maybe your sex drivesmade her slow down and mad. She lost enterest due to unsatisfying sex with you.

Think and evalute yourself on how you can make love with her wtih ultimate passion. Below is my husband's specialty and he made me feel like I'll be crazy to wanting more sex with him.

"The Technique That you should know to please your woman:"

There is really only one way to eat your wife's v-a-g-i-n-a-. And that is with every fiber of your being. Now don’t get me wrong there are several styles and positions you can do it in but to really lick and eat v-a-g-i-n-a- you have to want to be down there and not afraid to get your face and hands messy. If you loved your girl, you are ready to give what you find best techniques you never had done before will likely to be done to her now. Focus your self to lick, eat and suck her juicy v-a-g-i-n-a will make you a truly man the lady are fortunate to be with always because other guy does not like the smell and eat v-a-g-i-n-a with other have unpleasant smells. Why you do the technique is because you loved your girl whoever she is and you want to give your best to her that probably she is longing for. Make it calmly and do not harass for a hurry. The sex session you are doing today is not for quantity of rounds but quality of performance reciprocate with full sex satisfaction. Some guys are selfish they think of their personal satisfaction without giving satisfaction to their mates before they come.

A. You have to lay her back and spread her legs and kiss and lick and tease her v-a-g-i-n-a before you even think about entering her with a finger or tongue. You have to admire her legs and kiss and nibble and lick them. You cannot also forget that the rest of her body is very sensitive while you are between her legs, let your hands slowly roam, play with her breasts, take her hands slowly in your hand, feel her excitement. Find out of her G-spot, this is one of the sensitive parts in her private parts located about 2” below inside her vulva, try to insert you forefinger inside her v-a-g-i-n-a feeling it slowly the texture of this lubricated tissues as you rub and play it with your fingers, you will notice the changes of that tissue becoming roughl means her G-spot is reactivated and continue this thing to play with your finger until such time your girl will feel excitements and sensation she feel is getting a higher level of excitements. Now that you have driven her crazy with your teasing it is time to lick a single lick from the very bottom of her to the very tip of her *****. This single long lick should be done very slowly and in circular motion, repeatedly and play it longer, she will receive a long slow moan and perhaps her fingers grabbing your hair on the head clasping in tightly between her legs to show her appreciation to your efforts. The best thing about going down on a woman is hears her as you do it. As you hear she is moaning and groaning and the screams are what it is all about she is coming nearer. Even then when she asks you to stop she probably doesn’t really mean for it, but do it for more and more getting a woman so excited that she needs to take a break is the greatest feeling she is enjoying. Pushing her to extremes levels she doesn’t normally feel will make you a fond memory for years to come.

B. once you get to open her up and lick her and taste her on your tongue you should be moaning from the taste and the feel of her. This amazing juicy v-a-g-i-n-a that will soon be housing your p-i-n-e-s as you enter her into the evening. Show your appreciation for all that it does for you and the feelings it brings you. When you are licking and tasting and sucking on her lips do it with the energy of a child going after his favorite candy. Press your face hard as you tongue **** her, suck with all your might as you tease her **** in your mouth. Pressing the clits using your teeth and tip-tongue and playing circular motion will enhance sensations that you can feel how her body reacted to your doing. You will see how she surrenders her pelvic she is moving upwards to you closer and closer to you with her hands clasping your head between her legs tightly. She will make you the freedom to do continually whatever you do in her juicy vagina at her own desires is reaching its ultimate comes. Make sure you use every single weapon in your mind. Use your fingers and your tongue and your lips, hands and make sure you attack her body with so many sensations that she cannot help but come for you, over and over. Slide a finger or two in and out of her ***** as your flick your tongue all over her ****, circling and pressing. Make sure you listen to her as well, if she isn’t as vocal as some she will let you know what she likes with her hands or her moans, pay attention. She will always let you know one way or another. In addition to your sensation during this situation, try to glance her eyes where you can see her most and prettiest smile, you will discover how her beauty this lady is created perfectly by God, no one can described like an angel in cloud 9 now is in your hands holding.

C. Mutual conversation during this level of her excitements can enhance sexually urges between you two, it add fires when you ask each other’s feeling and you are conversing slowly with her it adds spices to the feeling of comes she feels, the “point of no return”, as the role player yourself, like when you are driving the car controlling the motion on the road of maximum sex enjoyment of her and if you may ask for everything she will give you an approval.

D. And the end result of this incredibly fun act is to make her comes and comes again. It isn’t to warm her up for a lovemaking, (though you will get that as well) It is to show her that you are willing to give as good as you get. You will know when she is close to coming for you. You will feel her strong legs hold you and kick and spread for you, you will feel her ***** getting ready to reward you and you will hear the moans and groans of a woman on the edge of ultimate pleasure. DON'T STOP doing what you are doing, I don’t care if your neck hurts or your hands cramp. For this is the best part, the part where her body totally lets go and comes. A girl’s orgasm is an amazing thing, she can have them one after another and that is what makes them so much hot and more fun, if you do this right and do not stop one might turn into two and third and so on. Hence, if you do the right job, the first come is far longer, and the next come is not long and so the third come maybe short and so on. And you would be surprised how much men don’t really care a woman coming. So when a woman finds one that does care and will put in all the time to make her come, she will be yours. Body and soul. So as you finger and lick and suck and press your face against that wonderful, JUICY & tasty V-A-G-I-N-A, tasting all she has to offer, don’t stop, keep going. Moan into her and grab her with your hands and hold her as you continue to please her. And don’t you dare stop till she is DONE.

Answer 2

Be more attentive to her OUTSIDE of the bedroom and it will help her mood INSIDE the bedroom. Help with house chores, help with the kids, and listen to her needs more often.

Date night away from the kids helps the spark, assuming she has gotten a good night's sleep before. Massages followed by long naps has never failed me.

If you're already doing all of these things, try romancing her the way you would if you were just starting to date her. All women that I know are suckers for an appearance from the men we first fell in love with, as opposed to the man we love now.

Answer 3

hmmm no clue what her problem is I'm 31 and can't get it enough...Do u do oral on her? If yes, are u sure ur doing it right? Have u tried changing things in the bedroom as in if ur romantic now then maybe a lil rough sex instead... My hubby only worried about himself until I told him sex w/ him pretty much sucked after that he paid more attention to me and worried less about himself I told him I didnt want romance crap no more but did want some hard core sex and life has never been the same I can do it all day long now ...with or without him I'll do it by my damn self...now that I think about it I do it more myself then w/ him...hahaha his fault!

Answer 4

The 'peak' is a myth brought on by social attitudes. It's not biological. Perhaps if she was more interested in sex, her peak occured at the natural time, late teens/early twenties. Get some ideas going, try new things and ask her what she likes and what she wants.

Answer 5

sex drive isnt always time the same for everyone. also, if she isnt feeling good about herself, her sex drive isnt going to be as high. try complimenting her, doing nice things for her like fixing dinner one night, drawing a bath for her, a compliment once in a while just because, or walking up from behind her wrapping your arms around her waist and whispering I love you in her ear, after a little bit, those things will put a spark back!

Answer 6

Change the environment. Maybe a nice weekend getaway. Or even in you own house, get out of the bedroom. A bottle of wine doesn't hurt either ;p
Good luck!

Answer 7

Give her a little more time. My 'peak' happened in my late 30's. Unfortunately, most women peak right about the time men fizzle...lol.

Answer 8

You best bet Andrew is get to the jewelry store and stop believing all those lies you have been told. You don't believe in Santa Claus, do you?

Be her Santa this year with lots of diamonds.

Answer 9

yeah

Answer 10

You both go and consult with a good reputed Dr. before that you took your wife to good gynecologist Dr.

Answer 11

You won't really know how to 'fix it' if you don't know what's causing it. It could be health issues, hormonal issues. Has she been sick? Injured? Had a kid in the last cpl years? It's hard to know how to deal with it if you don't know what's causing it.