I have a best friend, and we used to live with each other for 10 months. I used to py for EVERYTHING with her. I dont hve job, and now she does she hardly wants see me anymore. She calls me everyday to have a moan over the phone, b ut everytime i ask for her help, she just says im fter her money and that she has to be selfish. I sent her a really nasty message that i think shes has turned into a horrible person and that i cant be arsed tlk to her anymore. Do you think this was the right thing??
2007-11-06 13:56:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It depend on what you had said in your message. The important factor you should mention is how deeply it hurt you, and that you have always been there for her. You should express on how this have injured the friendship. Explain to her how disappointed you were, and even confuse, because you felt as friends she would always come to your rescue in a time of need. If your heart is still open for the friendship, then invite her to reconcile the broken relationship.
If you didn't express yourself on how deeply sad you are about her sudden change, then address another message to her. In the event she doesn't want any reconciliation, then just move on. Your situation is really sadden because you have been a best friend to her.
You know the value of friendship. Therefore, don't grieve if she don't respond. You can find someone else who will embrace the friendship, and most of all don't hate her. It unbalance the mind. You done the right thing. God bless.
2007-11-06 14:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋