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Hey i know your the kid asking this your mother is not dumb to ask this question... Gotcha

2007-11-14 13:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by LittleDaisy. 6 · 0 0

Once you figure that out, start working out how you're going to go with him to college to help him cheat in his classes.

It's still relatively early in the school year and there is plenty of time to do the community service. Rather than helping him cheat, help him find something he'll enjoy - or maybe even do something together. Volunteer at an after school program or with a youth sports league. Community service doesn't just mean picking up garbage on the side of the road or serving soup to the homeless - although both are worth causes.

2007-11-06 13:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 4 0

Let's just hope you make sure you take care of your other kids' hours better than his (assuming you have other kids) 40 hours turns into 10 hours a year, 1 hour a month, 15 minutes a week and finally 2 1/2 minutes a day! I think you can also earn a scholarship doing LOADS of Com. hours I know a guy who has 200+ hours in just 2 years!

2007-11-06 13:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Toadzard 2 · 0 0

Don't cheat for him! Help him find a worthy cause and complete his 40 hours before graduation. I'm assuming he graduates in the spring...which is thousands of hours from right now....I'm sure he can squeeze in 40 hours by then. Call a nursing home, a church, a shelter, a food bank....look in your local paper - some of them run "Volunteer" sections. Please, don't teach him that it's OK to shrug off the responsibility of helping others or to cheat your way through it. He'll get a lot more out of it if he actually does the work. Good luck!

2007-11-06 13:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by free2b 3 · 2 0

40 hours is only one week's worth of work. I THINK you could find something for him to actually DO. There are volunteer programs at parks. I'm sure if you called the Parks and Rec department in your city, they could help you with that. He could volunteer at your local community center, or ask a local charity (like the Salvation Army or United Way) about volunteer programs.

Seriously...what's so impossible or horrible about the thought of him actually DOING the volunteer work? It certainly won't hurt him. He HAS the time before graduation. You know, if you coddle him and fake this...you're only cheating him. It's character building for him to actually do something for someone else, without consideration for what he gets out of it. A little selflessness never hurt anyone, and even though he may HATE the idea, I wouldn't be surprised if he actually liked being a part of something like that when it's all over.

2007-11-06 13:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 5 0

you dont i mean 40 hours isnt that bad just get on his but and tell him u wana graduate well then u need 2 do some community work i mean there is a million diffrent things you can do i mean even some of it is fun you can volunteer at sixflags you can volunteer at teen court at fire departments librarys nursing homes at churchs helping hands for jesus senior citizen places just about anywhere and some places that u can volunteer at are very interesting and fun like museums or at least it is 2 me and no im not old im 14 so ur son my like doin some of the same stuff but i duno but like maybe have him do 3 hours a week i mean thats not that bad when u enjoy doing but dont try and cheat just do the work and get it over with if u need more ideas of what he can do and where he can volunteer at then just e-mail me at freeme2laugh@yahoo.com

2007-11-06 13:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by Shurbie 2 · 1 0

If he's into adventure, and doesn't have a weak heart, I'm always quick to suggest letting him ride along with a local police patrol unit for a few nights. For most (18 & older) kids this is better than the best video game ever played ...It's REAL !
And doing the night shift is even "REAL-er"! For sure he'll love you for it, and he'll have NO interest in sleeping during shift.
I rode with Austin, TX (APD) officers back in the late 70's for about 3 years, and I still wouldn't trade the experience for NUTHIN' !
Some nights were plenty cold, but cops always know where to find the best hot coffee & donuts day OR night.

2007-11-06 14:13:30 · answer #7 · answered by HootersvilleBoy 1 · 0 0

You can't cheat, but you can get him to do his hours quickly by setting up events that are in large chunks of time. For instance, Habitat for Humanity looks for people to work 4hr shifts minimum. Additionally, 40hrs is only 5 full workdays, so he could do a travelling project for a full week (like clean-up in New Orleans over Spring Break).

Additionally, you might want to look and see if anything he is already doing would count as community service (like coaching a PeeWee Team or helping elderly neighbors, anything he does for free).

2007-11-06 13:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by dlb_blair 4 · 2 0

how about not cheat and let your son suffer the consequences of his own actions. Volunteering is a great way to do community service and your son would learn a great deal from it. Giving up some time for a good cause is always rewarding.

2007-11-06 13:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by mrsmoparedtn 1 · 3 0

my son had community service too. i talked to his p.o. about using work at home to go towards his hours. she agreed, but not for dishes, vacuuming, etc. it had to be for cleaning out the garage, raking leaves, mowing, etc. it had to be real physical work. if you're allowed to do this, don't lie about the hours. his p.o. might drive up some day to check on the work he had done. if he drove by friday at 5:00pm, and you reported he mowed the yard at 5:00 pm, he will know you lied. make him do the work. it will make him a better person in the long run. there aren't any legal short cuts, or cheat sheets in life. he can donate his time at the boys / girls club, church, senior center, convalescent home, or helping out a neighbor who is old, or disabled. he just needs to get motivated, and set some time a side daily instead of weekly. that way it isn't so over whelming.

2007-11-06 14:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara L 6 · 1 0

You should never cheat for him. If you cheat for him you'll just make it to easy for him and you'll also be setting a bad example for him. He just needs to go out there and do it on his own. After all it's only 40 hours it shouldn't be that hard for him to do. He could probably do that in just a couple of weekends.

2007-11-06 13:56:45 · answer #11 · answered by Eugene 6 · 1 0

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