im 19 n dont have a boyfriend :( its been over a year since i've had a serious boyfriend. i've dated people since that but i havent found anyone to be in a relationship with. im starting to get worried that i will never find another guy i will be in a relationship with again. that is not another one who is cute n has a good personality...
2007-11-06 13:29:39 · 61 answers · asked by NAF SREWSNA OOHAY 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you will find someone,it took me a while but i finally found someone and we've been married 12 years
2007-11-06 13:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by crazi8red 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it, you are better off at 19, you will go through some changes still in life and I am surre find someone along the way. Go out and meet some different guys, and get a good feel for what you like and dont like.
I am 36, and 37 is coming fast, and I have no one special yet, havent had a serious girlfriend since I moved from NJ to NM in 05. I have lived with 3 different girls, and wonder if I am being too picky or what as each was pretty good all around, 1 left me, I left the other 2.
I find myself in the same old situation, one girl I want to get serious with isnt into me that way, yet I have a girl becoming very interested in being serious with me but I am not that into her..can never get it to go for both parties.
19,,,again enjoy an dget out and date some
2007-11-06 13:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by vincenzo445 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do because I have never had a relationship and I find that I have anxiety when I talk with women. However I thought it over and realized that it would not be that bad to not be married. You will have more money because you will have no kids, lots of free time, and also no rules or commitments. It could be a hell of a lot of fun being unmarried. Who cares anyway, by the time Im marrying age there will be tons of unmarried people with how things are going these days.
I hope this made you feel better :D because this is what I think about the situation and it ussualy makes me feel better about it.
2007-11-06 13:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ive been with my bf since i was 14 and him 16 were getting married after uni (im 19 now) ive got a friend whos going through the same thing you are, but you´ve got so long to find a husband, most people find their partners in their mid 20´s dont worry you´ve got time.
2007-11-06 13:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by estrellita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 19. You have your whole life ahead of you. If you are just obsessed with finding "the one" you will always be depressed.
I felt like you too at 19. I met my husband at 26. So I spent 7 years worrying about something that was out of my control, and missed out on just having fun with friends and living life. Let these thoughts go, smile, and just live!
2007-11-06 13:35:07 · answer #5 · answered by lefttheroom222 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To young to get married but yeah If I was 19 I'll be worry but at the same time have hope on me
2007-11-06 13:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm almost 19 and i'm, in the same situation. Sometimes I worry and get bummed out, but most times I don't care, especially when I'm with friends and just having fun.
I think that there's someone for everyone, so I guess it's just a matter of waiting. It's kinda cool though, thinking that some guy out there is waiting for me too. So I hold on to that. I'm sure you'll meet yours one day :)
2007-11-06 13:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by 1080 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry. You will find someone. Love takes time.
As for me I'm not worried about not getting married, because I don't want to get married. But I am worried about not finding someone to settle down with and just love for the rest of my life.
2007-11-06 13:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Patience! I've been to the alter 3 times and I'm not 40 yet. Be friends for a year before dating. It helps you find a long term guy. I did this the last time and we're gonna make it. ♥
2007-11-06 13:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pretty♥ ♥Kitty♥ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im almost 17 and have never dated any guy.So yeah it kinda sucks! But dont worry your only 19 wait till you get lil older and you'll have alot of guys after you cuz when guys are older there not imature like these teenage guys : (
2007-11-06 13:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by BlossomMe 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Been there, done that. It ended badly, and it has left me somewhat bitter and cynical. However, in your case, I wouldn't worry......you have LOTS of time to look. Take it from me, someone who has been there and wound up crashing and burning.......Go into a relationship like that with your eyes open and with a little bit of skepticism - it will help to keep your judgement fair, clear and honest. Marriage is a huge step - something not to be entered into lightly.
2007-11-06 13:31:49 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋