Because we are moms it can become so easy to try and make everything prefect for our families, feeling that we have some "magical" control over things, so that when something happens we feel its all our fault; that we did something to make it happen.
So as a mom with a spiritual nature which is more important to be prefect or to seek prefection.
2007-11-06 13:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by Spiritual_Director_4_Women 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-11-06 13:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mandibulin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I agree that as a mom we put a whole lot of pressure on ourselves, but also on those around us. It doesn't make for a happy life. I think we should strive hard to do our best but find contentment and joy in life. Seeking perfection for yourselves or others can lead to major disappointments.
2007-11-06 21:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by andmic510 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither are important to me bc GOD didn't make us perfect beings! So to try to achieve something that is literally impossible either way is annoying and insane! We wind up screwing up ourselves and our kids!LOL!! But seriously I think its important to just do the best you can do everyday! No more and no less! So even on those days when your not perfect, rejoice in the fact that your not perfect but you did what you can do!
2007-11-06 21:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither can be obtained so settle for just coming as close as possible. No one is perfect and striving to be will just leave you feeling inadequate when you do not succeed. Just take comfort in knowing that you are the best that you can be and that you did the best that you could do.
2007-11-06 21:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to seek perfection-
you'll never give up on what you love if you constantly think you have room for improvement. nothing can be perfect so thinking that you are at the perfect level is like you're giving up or you're bored
2007-11-06 21:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by cathyehhh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NONE.... becuz perfection doesn't exist, thus you can't be perfect and neither can you expect others to be...... and not finding something you're looking for so eagerly will only lead you to frustration.
2007-11-06 21:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think neither. i think you should be you and do what is in your heart to do. because trying to live a certain way you will never be happy and your family will only suffer
2007-11-06 21:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither one
spend time with your kids, LISTEN to them
teach them, love them, just do the best you can
becoming neurotic about it is only gonna mess it up
2007-11-06 21:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are spiritual, then seek to do as God would.
2007-11-06 21:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. there is no such thing as being perfect. just be the best you can be.
2007-11-06 21:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by luciousgreeneyedlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋