I started it I still love her
my wife and I have little in common 2 kids
2007-11-06 12:40:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your wife about the affair.
You'll probably find yourself with a lot less stuff and a lot less money, but you'll have more time...
2007-11-06 12:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by War Games AM 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've got to be kidding right? You want Yahoo Answers people to help you manage your life/time to fit in cheating on your wife with another woman? Give me a break. Yes, the old story of your wife doesn't understand you, you have nothing in common. Why didn't you think about you both having nothing in common when you were dating? Start thinking about your two children and how they will feel when daddy goes off with another woman or Mommy finds about about your cheating. You aren't getting any sympathy from me. You need to examine yourself and start trying to make your marriage work. Looking at the good qualities in your wife and the love you once had and the love your kids have for you instead of thinking with your d...............k, as most men do. Try to rekindle the romance and fire you had for your wife, instead of screwing around with another woman. Think about your children, and what attracted you to your wife in the first place and put things in prospective and end the affair, as it will end up destroying everything around you including your life, your time, your wife and children. Grow up and stop being so selfish.
2007-11-06 22:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the only thing you and your wife have in common is the kids, for THEIR sake please seperate immediatley! Staying in a marriage when your not happy, and openly (its not going to be a secret forever) disrespecting your marriage is not sending them the right message. Its saying I don't really value marriage, I just did it because of you guys! So its not really important to be happy, just keep up a good front for as long as you can. Now, is that the message that you want to send to your kids?! NO, And sure they may be young and not don't understand it at the moment, but kids do grow up! and the example you set is the one they will follow! And here is another example of that; how would you feel if your child/children married someone who cheated on them, because of whatever reason? Would say, well they did it bc you weren't exciting enough(so its your fault)etc? I didn't think so!
2007-11-06 20:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to fit in an affair with the woman you love while maintain a life with your wife, whom you don't love. Why don't you get a spine, be a man, step up to the plate, and be honest with your wife. That way, you can get your divorce and be with the other woman without guilt.
2007-11-06 23:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you love her because its new and exciting or is it the chase? How does she feel about being a part of your childrens life? Have you asked your wife to do different things with you? or do you expect her to read your mind?
you must have had something in common with your wife at one time..what made it die? Her taking care of your kids and no time with you? you need to maske a choice now - commit or get out...
2007-11-06 22:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to "fit it ALL in"??? I've got news for you: YOU CAN'T!!!! Eventually this will come out to the open and you will have to choose. YOU CANNOT HAVE IT ALL, you have to lose some things in order to win others. You may think that it IS possible to have it all cuz you've managed to handle things accordingly so far, but believe me, this won't last forever. You have to start making your plans for the moment everything is discovered.... and not only time-wise, but also legally, with your family (parents, siblings, they also get in the middle of it all when there are kids involved), etc.......
2007-11-06 21:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Lprod 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's time to either tell your wife or end the affair. You aren't being fair to the other woman or your children. You'll be lucky if your wife doesn't find out. There's obviously a reason why you started this and don't want to finish it. Maybe it's time you got out of the marriage.
2007-11-06 20:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel for ya ......sometimes you just want to have your cake and eat it to. I am kind of going through the same thing, not having an affair yet but crushing on someone.
2007-11-06 21:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by Destiny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Little in common..
You have two kids man! Thats a lot in common. Work it out...even if you have to say sorry a hundred times!
2007-11-06 21:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are committing adultery. Stop this now. You are to let only your own wife intoxicate you.
Adultery is a sin that comes with dire consequences.
When your wife finds out, it may just be fatal for you.
2007-11-07 01:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋