Women.. what would you say are things women as a group need to improve on?

Question

I've asked several questions about why women tend to have no accountability for their actions and always point the finger or play victim.

The responses I get are usually things like: "men do it too!", "Your meeting the wrong women!", "Your a misogynist!", etc.

So instead, I'll ask.. what problems in this world are the cause of women? What are women today doing wrong? What can be done to improve the behavior of women?

As a man I can name many things men are doing wrong... so what are women doing wrong?

Men can answer too.

Answer 1

You must think yourself very clever, dear. You ask that question so you can use the information we give you against us. We had seen you and your questions before: you have absolutely no interest in gathering any knowledge ( your stereotypes are firmly in place ). So here is a food for your thought ( We all wonder if you had any lately?.. ): women need to support each other as true sisters should.

Answer 2

I don't know how widespread this is, but I've been told by someone with a good deal of first-hand experience that women date a nice guy for a while, get their egos inflated by his love, then move on to a bad boy, whom they perceive to be better (often because he has more money). The women who do this need to realize that a man can't fill their every need, and that they shouldn't expect perfection.

Answer 3

I think women could sometimes be more direct. It sometimes is helpful to be more subtle, but I think, especially in the professional world and in dating, we should try to express more clearly what we want and expect. I know it drives men nuts when we expect them to guess why we're upset, and I think we'd get paid more if we were more direct at work.

Answer 4

I am loathe to make such sweeping generalizations, but here goes:

I think that women, at least in the west, need to realize that we have benefited from the deconstruction of stereotypes about our gender, and in so doing, we need to be aware of which things about men are similar stereotypes and not accept them as truth. We need to be aware that a similar close examination of gender is not yet acceptable for men, and work to make it that way.

Answer 5

Sexual promiscuity. I think that's what the first person was trying to say but I can spell it right. Women also need to work on not dressing so revealing, not hating men and being happier with themselves.

Answer 6

You wrote: ""I've asked several questions about why women tend to have no accountability for their actions and always point the finger or play victim."' We have asked you to provide examples of your assertions and haven't gotten a response. So I would say we don't have to improve on anything.

Answer 7

Chiefly... developing a sense of humor about ourselves.

I'll start.

HERSTORY!

"They say history is written by the winners.... now it's our turn!"

Fight the spirit of gravity even if it falls down on your side!

...especially if it falls down on your side.

Answer 8

-Self-knowledge
-Self-esteem
-Accountability
-Stop celebrating indirect communication.
-Being aware of a biological/cultural tendency to treat good men like crap and be sexually attracted to bad boys, and try to fight this tendency. (Just like men are supposed to fight their desire to fertilize as many attractive women they can)

Answer 9

You wrote:

"As a man I can name many things men are doing wrong..."

Soooooo, let's hear them! As Professor C implied, I can't think of anything we're doing wrong.