White men!!?

Question

Might as well be honest... I can't see your faces! And I promise not to give you a thumbs down.

Just tell me... when you date black women -- is it mostly because you just want to experience what they're like in bed?

I've just recently started dating interracially... and it seems like every time I date a white man, all he cares about is getting me into bed. I'd hate to generalize, but I'd just like to know whether or not the majority of white men just see black women as sexual objects or a "new experience" for them to try. If so, why is this?

Thanks for the answers so far!! As promised.. not thumbs down from me... even for you, Kyle :)

I'm 22, but I date guys at least my age or older. I've even dated a guy who was 37... and no, age didn't increase his maturity! LOL

I was just interested in seeing guys' views of black women in terms of sex vs. relationships.

Thanks you guys!!

Answer 1

Sweetie. All men want to get you into bed.

Not by Virtue of your heritage but by virtue of genetic programing.


Most White males have lost there heritage (Asatru, and the old ways and the values that they held) So thos ethat havent found it again tend to be very pleady in a metaphysical form.


Essentially if they are wanting to sleep with you becuse your a different race it is becuse they wish they had a strong cultural background.

All the stuff below is me rambling. Read at your own risk. However i am glad to say i am engaged to someone of a different race and its becuse I genuinelly love her.

( we DO have a strong proud background. Its just that so few have even heard about it and since we are white looking for our roots we get labeled as racist becuse we are concerned in this edeavour with Whites ancestors [more specifically Norwegians, scandanavians, germans, Icelandics, Gaelics, Saxons, and a whole mess of other groups but I dont know if you recognize half those names by virtue of the fact that they are heard so rarely so I use an umbrealla term]
Fundamentally speaking.....well..... You wouldnt happen to have a complete anthology of the Nrodic myths lying around somewhere by any chance? Cause that would be so awesome... being as most of the myths are fragmented and have strange conflicts sometimes. Fundamentally speaking if you want a garage door you go to someone selling garage doors. Which is why my studies tend to center around Northern europe. (There is acctually a strong anti racist feeling to the old ways that is very inherrent))

Wow. Thats an impressive rant. Hope I helped and enlightened.

Answer 2

Yes, but how is that different than any other man you have dated? Remember Sir Mix-A-Lot's song, "Baby Got Back"? That is why. I'm not suggesting all men are like this, but most of us are. Doctor Oz stated it is important for men to have sex; women too. Anyway, everyone wants to know what it is like to be with someone from another group. Some care if people know, some don't. I hate the term interracial because it suggests you are dating something from the animal kingdom or from another world. I guess it could be a different world depending on the guy huh? (Chuckle) Anyway unless he is from a different planet or a caveman, no one dates interracially. I say this to all people.

Answer 3

Well ALL men regardless of race just want to get into your pants. That's first & foremost. Second I have been w/ my honey going on 2 yrs & was w/ my ex for over 10yrs (I couldn't marry him, wwaayy too many jealousy issues, had to move out of state to get away from him), so I would have to say that the man in general (regardless of race) would have to see something in YOU to want to take it to the next level. When a man looks at a woman, he thinks how can I get her into bed, but it's how you present yourself that changes his mind. How do you behave? How do you dress? How old are you? If you are under 25 & dating guys the same age especially 18 & under, you can bag them wanting to get to know you in general guys that age just want to get into your pants. But you do have the occasional that want more.

Answer 4

I think in your age group all men white black asian and other want to get the women in bed, whether they be black white asian or other lol...I think you are reading into it more then what is,,as your white sisters,,I am sure they will say the men are trying to get them in bed too.

Answer 5

Well that is a fair question, when i was a teen, I tried to get every girl in bed" but now that I'm older I understand that there is so much more to learn,hear,and experience with a women . no that is not all that a half white man wants not this one. you must be dating boys not men. but white girls get the same, but I think a lot of pure white guys dream of Barbie, try older men, but always keep your eye open, sweetie we men are pigs. all colors

Answer 6

I think when you meet someone new, there's always a thought of what it would feel like to be with them sexually..... that is even more the case when you are dating interracially for the first time. I have dated white guys many times and I never let the thought of 'he was just looking for sex with a black girl' get to me if things didnt work out, because I know he's definitely getting it (yeah ...payback is a *****). Otherwise the guys Ive been with have been decent lads so far.... just didnt work out because of some habits/flaws of ours we both couldnt deal with.

Hey Im just stating the fact people.... dont be too sensitive.

Answer 7

In my experience, white guys and black guys are just alike in one respect. We are all (as an old friend used to say) "particularlyhornybastids."

Just being honest love. I've never dated interracially, and since I'm married, I don't expect to start.

Doc

Answer 8

Well the men you went out with are probably just interested in having sex with anyone, not because of your race. Many men go on dates just for a one night stand.

Answer 9

Statically of Black adult males who marry in ordinary terms 7% prepare miscegenation and in ordinary terms 5% are with White women human beings. The information are decrease between Black women human beings. So my component is that if 93percentof Black adult males are marrying Black women human beings why might I be inquisitive with regard to the 7% that don't? And as you in addition to mght reported the information are even decrease between Black women human beings. i'm for the renovation and merchandising of Black love, Black solidarity and the Black family individuals. i do no longer care why White adult males are no longer marrying Black women human beings. opposite to the sensationalized media the US Census speaks for itself. additionally i will declare individually i don't be attentive to any Black/White interracial couples individually and that i be attentive to many married couples. surely in simple terms this 365 days I witness many weddings between my buddies and family individuals that have been between Black adult males and Black women human beings. So returned why could I be inquisitive approximately considered one of those small group of folk?

Answer 10

All men want to get a girl into bed darling, regardless of the ethnicities of the peolple dating. We love women! it's just the way we are.