My boyfriend believes he is too young to be married. Is there anyway I could convince him he's not?
2007-11-06 11:53:37 · 10 answers · asked by maidnicole2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
are you having sex? if yes then stop if he ask you why then tell him to young for sex unless iam married
2007-11-06 11:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, no.
If he thinks he is too young, then he is too young, mentally or whatever.
If you don't feel the same but don't mind waiting, wait.
In all likelihood time will make him come around to the idea.
But if you mind, you need to tell him.
He needs to know that you are too old to not get married, which is just as important.
He needs to know that you need that security.
Time marches on for us all, and it's not time you need to be spending passing 'the one' by, while the fence-sitting mr 'i want my freedom' is humming and harring and oh-not-too-sure wasting your time.
Life is too short.
2007-11-06 12:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? If your in ur early 20's, u probably don't know what u REALLY want. Most of the time young people don't. If ur sure u love him and want to spend the REST of ur life with him, u should wait for him to feel the same about u. Don't pressure him, and make sure its what u want before u do anything.
2007-11-06 12:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth is men really are never ready to get married . They are too immature at times. But if you have to convince him , then that should be a big sign that he's not ready. My advice is give him time . And if it's meant to be it will be .
2007-11-06 12:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Marbts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but, i think he is more qualified to answer whether or not he is ready to be married or not.
listen to him. if u really love him then you should be willing to wait for him. and to reiturate what has already been said, if you want to spend the rest of your life with him, then you have all the time in the wold till he is ready to actually get married.
2007-11-06 12:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him, you'd wait until he was ready. In order for marriage to work, you need to both be ready for it. Don't turn into another stereotype, get married, and then end up getting a divorce.
2007-11-06 12:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this..Never ever convince a guy to marry you unless He himself has decided it to settle down and you have both have the same goal in life of having a happy family for both of you because if you pushed him your marriage and children in the future would be in vain...It is not the age that matters in a relationship or in marriage but rather how mature you have grown to be the person you can be worthy before entering into marriage..marriage is a big deal only couple who have strong will towards their family survives...and of course the love for each other and faith in God as their center of their lives.. have you ask yourself if you could withstand already the responsibility as a parent and wife/ mother? and so does he...will you be faithful and forgive him still if your husband cheats on you for the sake of your children?...will you still love him when your love has gone already?...will you face and be strong enough if you sees the other side of your husband - the attitude that you have not yet seen yet revealed when the time you have both in the same room for the rest of your lives?...Don't make divorce as a means of ending a marriage you thought was a happy ending youre children will be the once to suffer the most...because in reality of what we call life - its a mixture happy and sad situation that makes life quite challenging and sweet...its in you both if your really are mature enough to handle them...
Don't take marriage lightly....think it a million times...
If your man says he's to young to get married he means he haven't enjoyed enough yet being single or in a relationship...Don't be rush over marriage, your still young enjoy in that state of situation of not in marriage....have you not notice? that there are a lot of divorce over marriage? because only true love can withstand the test of time and survive..its a lifetime commitment my dear...develop fully first yourselves worthy as a wife/husband before anything else...
take your time and enjoy...don't rush...once your married there is no way out if the time comes you fall out of love...paper as divorce can never settle marriage - it will always leave a painful mark...remember you only marry once in the eyes of God...and what God Has united as one will never be reunited by man in the form of paper....
2007-11-06 13:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by magi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT pressure him...the bottom line is he is not ready to get married. I don't want to sound harsh, but do you really want to try to convince someone to marry you?
2007-11-06 11:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by *Honk Honk* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but let him grow up first.....
2007-11-06 11:57:34 · answer #9 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you tell us his age?
2007-11-06 12:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋