we had sex the night of the test and she hasnt had any signs, i dont no wen it happened we always used condoms and they never broke, i think it was about a month ago tho, please halp me im under alot of stress and we cant hav it cuz were both to young
2007-11-06 10:12:06 · 9 answers · asked by kenn 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
i dont always trust condoms....
2007-11-06 10:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you can't see a hole doesn't mean it wasn't there. Besides, like someone said, they aren't 100% effective. First go to the doctor and have it confirmed (no point in causing a fuss if she isnt pregnant). You need to tell your parents, which will be really hard. You need to admit to them that you made a mistake by having sex irresponsibly. Beyond that, you need to decide what is going to happen to the baby (adoption, abortion, keep it). Don't just think about yourselves, but about the best thing for the baby too.
Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES should you run out and get married just because you're having a baby. That won't make it any easier or any better. Support your g/f because she's probably even more shocked than you are (a 7 pound object will be falling out of her vagina in 9 months).
2007-11-06 18:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by a_paradox_angel@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are too young to have a baby then you are too young to have sex - i'm sorry sweets but that is the cold hard truth...
you need to go ahead and bring this one up to your parents... if the test came back positive then she's most likely pregnant - the chances of a false positive are fairly low.
goodluck - she needs to be on some form of birthcontrol, condoms should not be the only form of birthcontrol...
2007-11-06 18:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by Tabby 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be having sex if your too young either...but you made a mistake so you can't go back now, you should get her to have an abortion if you don't want a child.
Or live with your mistakes.
Did the condom break?
Did it slip off?
2007-11-06 18:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Efffffff X 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, this is a lesson learned, you need to use a condom ALONG WITH her using the pill. second you two need to talk about that if she is doctor confirmed pregnant what you are going to do. but take it a step at a time, she should schedule an appointment with her gyno to see if she is pregnant.
2007-11-06 18:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by GelBell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if she has missed a period then yes she is most likely pregnant. Call this number for help, it is totally confidential and you call call them 24/7. They specialize in teenage pregnancies and guide you in what to do.. 1866-942-3679
2007-11-06 18:19:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING is 100% except for abstinence, so ANY time you have sex, protected or not, you risk the chance of pregnancy.
She could be pregnant.
If you cannot be responsible for the consequences of sex, you should NOT be having it.
2007-11-06 20:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but that was a bad idea condams are only 80% affective so ik this isnt what you want to hear but you are going to have to work this out think of how stressed ur girlfriend is!!!
2007-11-06 18:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Spongebob S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two need to consider what you want to do about it. Abortion, adoption and parenting are you options. Tell your parents and/or go to Planned Parenthood for help.
2007-11-06 18:16:15 · answer #9 · answered by Lou 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋