What do I say to her. How can I help her!
2007-11-06 10:04:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
She's taking it really hard. She's in shock and doesn't know what's going to happen with the kids.
2007-11-06 10:10:03 · update #1
She has five boys ranging in ages 5 -17. They are good kids but the middle one acts up alot. They don't have alot of money.
2007-11-06 10:12:21 · update #2
just be there for her, be her friend. go have a drink or something- let her cry on your shoulder.
2007-11-06 10:06:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
To confront him and leave him until he straightens up. which might be best. Remind her that 2 wrongs don't make a right. Also a visit to the other woman with a cool calm visit will make her want out just like a cockroach when you turn on the light.
Be a friend
2007-11-06 18:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by JOHN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant really do much the more you do could hurt your relationship just be there and listen when she needs you give some advice like go and see someone to see where she stands like a lawyer or a counsellor or tell her to get him to go to marriage counselling you don't know the extent of his infidelity nor would she yet probley never will so just be strong for her and be a shoulder
2007-11-06 18:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by tamah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!!
I would suggest you let her do the talking, and as much as you think he is a rat, try to keep horrible comments about him to yourself...if they get back together, she could turn on you, or be embarrassed about the things you said about him!!
Just spend lots of time letting her cry, or rant...anything that helps.
Plenty of tissues, wine and chocs should be the order for a few days...xx
2007-11-06 18:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get corroborating evidence for the divorce if that's the way she wishes to go...she's his wife and therefore the best P.I for the job,coming from a P.I myself.best of luck
2007-11-06 18:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by JD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her once a cheater is always a cheater. DIVORCE HIM
He's not going to change. You two can have a sleep over at a 5 seasons hotel.
2007-11-06 18:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for her. Let her talk it out and support her if she decides to file for divorce. This is going to be rough on your friend, and she's going to need all the support and love she can get.
2007-11-06 18:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything bad about her husband, she might not leave him. Just listen if she want to talk.
2007-11-06 19:00:46 · answer #8 · answered by beffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat his ***. You do know that the fastest way to a man's heart is through his chest with a sharp knife, don't you?
2007-11-06 18:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by A B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her, dont ever leave her, unless she wants to, but even then try to always check on her bc shes really hurting inside ..
nd btw go kick his a**!
2007-11-06 18:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by ღ£Ðwå®Ðz§ løv£®ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there to comfort her and tell her things are going to be ok. also tell her to get away from him for good because obviously he doesn't respect her like she thought. tell her she deserves better. good luck.
2007-11-06 18:09:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋