is life really worth it?

Question

i wouldn't ever think of commiting suicide, but i HATE my life! i was diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder, andi it's sooo hard to talk to people at school! i have almost no friends, i think like one good friend. i also have A.D.D., which can make me have embarrassing situations because i tend to be forgetful or clumsy, which then makes it worse for having S.A.D. and i feel like i just can't take it anymore! i was born in an extremely Christian family, and it's hard to meet my "holiness"" level, when i am a homosexual, and i cannot "change" my sexuality. it makes me cry so much and it just feels like life really isn't worth living sometimes!

i would never kill myself though... EVER...even IF i was in Africa or whatever like that first answer said.
i'm just wanting advise on how to have a BETTER life.

Answer 1

DO NOT LISTEN TO BABY BLUE. First of all every one is unique in their own way. If you are homosexual embrace that and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Do what makes you happy. If you have trouble talking to people thats ok there is a place for everyone and thats why this world has extremely outgoing people to come talk to you. If you don't like your life change it so you do like it, make descisions that will make you happy in the future not descisions that will make your parents happy now this is your life not theres. And about the whole forgetful and clumsy thing......don't worry you WILL find some one that will lofe that about you. : )

Answer 2

Yeah, life it worth the living. Not without love, though. And I might be diggin me a grave here, but I got flash news for you: being homosexual is not life as it was intended to be. Being homosexual is not a condition, you are born with, it's a personal choice. Society was told a lie and it's being told the same lie despite of the fact that many suffer, like you. Just like you choose how to wear your hair you choose or not to be same sex oriented. It's not normal, and your anxiety problems will not be solved by listening to what the media has to say about this "condition' but by finding out who you are, and why God made you. Go back to the purpose for which you were created, and even when you find that, life is still hard, and seems pointless, - but because of Jesus it's worth it.
Being extremist as Christian isn't helping either. It's blocking the spectrum of what you can be, in Christ. Jesus promised the "abundant life" and it's crystal clear you're not living it. I would tell you to go to a Church that teaches the truth, but that's not going to help you. There's so many out there, it's impossible to find what you need. I say this much, pray to God like you never prayed in your life, and ask Him to show you the way. He will open doors for you, but you need to step in and grab the hand of God. And He does love homosexuals. Anyone who tells you differently is too self absorbed.
Having social issues in life, or being clumsy and embarrassed about it doesn't matter, really! Get over it. People love people who have some kind of weakness, after all we're all weak in some points, we're all human. Whomever raised the bar for you did you a miss-favor! Being lost forever, and living like you do, makes life not worth it. It's worth the life of the Son of God, so yeah, you're worth it, big time! Just get your act together, and your definitions straight. Then 'emerge' into what you were meant to be, the crown of God's creation, not some pathetic human being that 'can't change" because he's a homosexual. Taste and see how good God is, first and then decide if you want Him or not. If you want to know the truth, get in touch with so many former homosexuals who could and did change forever, and for real. Don't listen to those who control the minds of the masses, and label us as helpless, and handicapped, and there's not a thing you can do to change.... There is hope and there is life, you're just looking for it in all the wrong places. I will pray for you if you want to change, and you will find the way if you want to. There's more to life than a prison called "social anxiety" or a lie called "homosexualism". There is God. That's the truth. And nobody hates you, not even God, not even Christians. The devil does, though. But he doesn't count cuz God wants you desperately, just like you are. You decide. You don't need to do anything to win God's love, you already have it.

Answer 3

Yes, life is really worth it.
I'm sorry that u have all those problems, but do u know that before there is no such things as those disorder or ADD. Today's society, people always making up things or medical terms or even words in dictionary.
Life is great, u just need to learn to enjoy it. Our society are very open now a day. You'll find many people who would have the same problem as you do, or even worst.
What you need to do is except yourself 1st., then you'll be able to live your live. Have confidence in yourself.
As long as you do good in your life, then to me, you have met your holiness. "It's all in the eyes of the beholder, what you want is what you see."

Answer 4

The only thing I can say is that I was at that same spot and had no friends. Most of the time I was depressed. No matter how intimidated you are about approaching or talking to someone, most of the time the benefits you receive after it are remarkable.
I have problems focusing and short attention span, so I kind of let everyone know about it (jokingly of course). I was quiet and afraid for so long that I had no friends, but when I started talking idk more ppl were accepting. I know this sounds bad, but maybe if you let someone know about s.a.d they might be willing to listen to you and why It's so hard.

Answer 5

Life is worth it because your only blessed with one and if it wasnt worth it, you wouldnt have it. Its o.k to feel crummy sometimes but to think about it you have a "family" that loves you...some kids grow up not knowing if they have a family. so just be thankful for what you have and not what your going through..everyone has a crappy day even the perfect ones. it's life.. thats the exciting part of it. if life wasnt so crappy then it would be boring...its the exciting things that get you through LIFE.Just hang in there!

Answer 6

Personally, I would have to say life isn't worth living. I have A.D.D, A.S.D, M.D.D, Obsessive Compulsive and Social Anxiety disorders so I understand where you are coming from. I am ready to kill myself as well. I am currently under police surveillance. If I slash my wrists again, I will be hospitalized. Life just keeps getting worse for people like us :(

Answer 7

All I can tell you is that life can get better for you, but you have to want it to get better. Change what you know you can change, avoid people that put you down for who you are. Seek out the help of a good counselor and a good psychiatrist.

Answer 8

life is the most spacial gift that GOD has given us there is never a good reason to commit suicide it is a selfish cold hart-ed think to do if you don't care how it will effect those around you than be selfish and keep on living and don't let those looser at school win hang in there i know you can do it

Answer 9

when you can move out, and make more of your own decisions, it will be easier.
sorry i can't give more immediate advice. Talking to a therapist or counselor might help.

Answer 10

Yea cause kids in Africa with no food and AIDS don't even have it half as bad as you.......


/sarcasm


Quit crying, no matter how crappy life gets for you, there is always someone who has it worse.