When I was in my own country I missed so much to be in this country, and now again that I'm here, I feel empty and miss my country. (Please deep answers better than "homesick" of if so, sugestions of how to overcome it) thanks.
2007-11-06 08:24:50 · 2 answers · asked by Dragonheart 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Thank you Nelly, you are very kind.
2007-11-06 11:36:23 · update #1
Maybe you just need to spend some time getting to know your own "self" better?
It is natural to want what we don't have, but do you really know what you want?
Of course you miss your own country when you are here, but think about what brought you here. why did you miss this country and want to be here so badly as to leave your own country that you love?
What is important to you?
Figure it out and maybe you will be happier in whatever situation you are in and wherever you are.
Good luck to you.
2007-11-09 05:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by Doodles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, 'the grass is greener on the other side'.
I've been in a similar situation. I tried to appreciate the best of the country that I am in at the time & have very regular contact with the both people I miss in the my home country & try to make lots of new friends in the other country. (With www.skype.com you can keep in good regular contact very cheaply, with the people you miss back home).
Go to some places in England, that you will wish you went to, when you go back to your home country.
Perhaps you find a new hobby here, maybe something that is more difficult to do in your own country. I did that, & plan to introduce here.
When you go back to your home country you will look back with great fondness of the memories you have & the great friends you made in the other country.
Oh & take lots of photo's. With a digital camera, you can delete the photo's that aren't very good straight away.
2007-11-06 16:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nelly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋