I have not been getting the attention I want from my girlfriend..so I decided to use reverse psychology on her. What can I do to make her feel she is about to lose me? We have been dating for 5 months...and I want to try something that I haven't tried before...any suggestions would be great
2007-11-06 07:26:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Why not talk to her? Let her know that you feel slighted and would like more time and attention.
There may be an underlying reason why you aren't seeing her (maybe she's simply not that interested) or perhaps she is just afraid she'll seem too clingy.
Talk to her! No need to play mind games with her--that's not conducive to a healthy relationship.
2007-11-06 07:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by elsie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it wont work
but it will work to get her a diamond ring if she is worth marrying if not why waste your time and life.
If you have God in your heart John 3&10th chapters life and life more abundantly.
with Jesus in ones heart, there is always a new start.
And if you dont have Jesus in your heart, it is as He says for rejecting the word of love John 12:48 verse
it will be weeping and gnashing teeth forever, the worst all all you have ever experienced in life is better than one hour in hell.
Yet God is the one that says to leave your parents when you marry Genesis 2:24"And the two shall become one"
make sure ahead you got a good solid bible church to go to for spiritual and other support.
if anyone or thing is your god, it will all crumble in this life, I know I tried it both ways.
peace and prayers for you, David the sweet pea in his amazing grace= Revelation 3:19&20 He loves you most and knocks on your heart door to come in, deliver from sin -even unthankfullness , to be your friend and fellowship with you too.
2007-11-06 15:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just find out if she really likes you. You shouldn't have to do anything. If she doesn't like you enough to be with you without trying reverse psychology then you shouldn't be with her anyway
2007-11-06 15:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying goes "You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink, right?" What you are referring to is riding the horse to make them thirsty so they are drawn to the watering hole out of necessity. This is how you change people without making them feel like something inside them is wrong.
Why do you want to make her feel she is about to lose you? Is she not submissive or something? It's difficult to give you advise any further because I'm not sure what to tailor it to. I guess if you want her to feel like she lost you then stop hanging out as much, act uninterested while being around her. My other question is what if she were to do this to you and you found out why she was doing it. How would it affect you at that moment in time? Imagine how it will make her feel? You sure you want to do this?
2007-11-06 15:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
how bout you try talking to her about it and stop playing mind games!! you wont get anywhere by using reverse psych, if anything it could make things worse!
2007-11-06 17:00:57 · answer #5 · answered by New York Chic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be careful, reverser scicology with ur girl can be risky.
2007-11-06 15:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mark-0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋