Like things finally start going well, then something goes wrong? Then you have crazy amounts of stress, then things finally start going well again, and then once again you fall flat on your butt? When does the cycle end?
2007-11-06 07:05:33 · 22 answers · asked by Eternalsilence 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
When will it end? Just want a normal life! Actually not sure what that is anymore! Cry =(
2007-11-06 07:13:00 · update #1
I’m not going to say what has just happened but I want everyone to know that I appreciate your kindness in answering my question!
2007-11-06 07:18:57 · update #2
That's just life in general. It's about ups and downs - on track and off again and how we handle all of it. Life is hard - enjoy the good times and hold fast to them in the bad..and keep going because the best lessons learned are normally when we are far off the track.
2007-11-06 07:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, you are so NORMAL. God's finest people do have experiences like yours. I only hope that sometime before you are too old, something will happen to you and you will say, "This is great! Everything I went through in my youth was worth it." Some of your experiences are because you are trying to accomplish something. That is, you are trying to make yourself grow in some way, and the setbacks frustrate you. I'm going to think about you for the rest of this day, and ask God if there is some way to reduce your frustration. That is all I can do. (Sorry. Can't give you my phone number here...but it sure would help you if I could.)
Be comforted by Spirit if you can, dear.
2007-11-06 07:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by SaturnMan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid this cycle never ends - it's called life! Try to emphasize the positive even when you're having a bad day. Think of all the good things rather than the bad.
2007-11-06 07:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Shelby's Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Spinning uncontrolled" - no longer at the instant, thankfully. ill and uninterested in the BS - no count how confusing I attempt? Hell definite! And, I surely have had it spin uncontrolled a pair circumstances recently... that is been a on a similar time as with the aid of fact i've got opted for an exceedingly quiet existence the previous few years, yet i've got been by way of some actual messes. I took one step at a time to get "back on aim". It took time and staying power. no count what the reason, it helps to examine the area and spot what you're able to do to start putting issues magnificent - or the place you prefer to be / pass on your existence. then you particularly only take the stairs mandatory. you would be able to hit some frustration; perhaps a wall or 2 -- yet you exceedingly lots only could save plodding alongside and handle issues as they arrive. (((Ticked)))
2016-12-08 13:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, thats happened to me for nearly 10 years. Just like, I met my husband when I was with some creep, my husband stole me away and protected me from him, then the creep started stalking me, got me fired from my job, turned all my friends and family against me...So my husband (future husband at the time) took off on a trip to move across country, all set to get our lives better with less bull....and got in a severe car accident on our way there that nearly killed him, but ended up just crippling him from life, making it impossible for him to work ever again, and I'm stuck taking care of him and working to support us....
Hopefully the cycle has ended, as I am due to have a baby on thursday, and I want nothing bad to happen from this.
I hope life turns around for you, as it can be horrible....:(
Good luck
2007-11-06 07:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by krisindeed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It never really ends. What is supposed to happen is that you grow from every new challenge. When things go wrong, they go wrong for a reason--so you can grow from the experience. If you don't accept the challenge, you don't grow. You become stagnant, depressed, bored with life. Furthermore, you lose what you've already accomplished. You've got to welcome adversity. Welcome the challenge and grow from it. Each challenge will bring about a new one. And as you continue to grow, you will become stronger and wiser. Your eyes will be opened and you will come the realization of Christ--the understanding of truth.
2007-11-06 07:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but that's life.....What you do is pick yourself up and go again. Always think positive, and it won't seem so bad. What's that saying....."Laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and you cry alone"........Things will get better...But, remember that life isn't a bed of roses. You're supposed to have those bumpy roads. It's there to help us learn..........If everything were perfect, we would be bored.
2007-11-06 07:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by White Dove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea I have been through quite alot in the past few years about the best you can do is keep pressing on and everntually you will get a break and life will eventually fall in order. God was a big help and the people in my church were very supportive. look for support especially if your family is not .
2007-11-06 07:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by sandy34 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is just the way life goes. That is why I cringe when things start to go well! The other shoe will drop at any minute.
2007-11-06 07:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it does end , It's just life
but sometimes you have to remember
that you need rain for a flower to grow
Rain being the bad..
Everyone has bad days i wouldn't worry too much
x
2007-11-06 07:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋