2007-11-06 05:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i think you should sit her down and talk to her. tell her that she wanted it also and didn't want to use anything. tell her that you will be there for here regardless just don't get an abortion. you both may be young but you can make it. A baby is a miracle. just think of the people that are not able to have children. it hurts them bad to see other ppl having an abortion when they could easily just give it up for adoption.
GOOD LUCK man, anything else just get at me. i know what your going thru... send me a message
2007-11-06 05:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi well its going to be difficult now you have to grow up and be a man No more messing around you need to find a job to help this girl take care of ya'lls baby. I also think that you both are responsible for this action. If you knew the consequences you should of thought that this was not a good idea sit down and talk with both of ya'll parents ask for help you will need it and don't get away from her just cause she is pregnant remember that this little kid is going to need his daddy no matter what. It is not his fault and it was not asked for this grow up and just take responsibility talk to this girl and let her know that life is not over it is just the beginning well good luck and hope everything works out for the best
2007-11-06 21:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by misscrazy210 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have suggested it, but you still had the choice. This baby is now half you and half her, so the responsibility's even.
Part of being a man here is taking some control over the situation. Next time you're talking and the blame game starts, the mature thing is to set it aside. Make it clear to your girl that nothing is solved by continuing that nonsense. Instead, focus on working together to figure out what you're going to do.
2007-11-06 13:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to use a condom in future.
Talk to her, tell her you accept your part of the responsibility and she must accept her part. You don't say your age but I suspect you are under age. Go to a school counselor or other trusted adult who will be able to advise you both. Don't go alone, and don't expect your girl to go alone - you got into this together. She needs your support now as she is going to be the one who is dealing with most of the immediate consequences.
2007-11-06 13:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do?
Grow up and learn to take care of a child, and quit playing the blame game.
If your old enough to have sex, your old enough to deal with the consequences.
Use your head next time...its sad that some people are trying so hard to have children and can't, and then people like you try to run away from it because your so immature.
2007-11-06 13:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by mcharron1983 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Congrats, and it takes to to make a baby, so its both of you'll respnonsibility
ttc#1 for 4 years now
2007-11-06 13:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up tell your girl it's wan't just you ...... but when you say make her feel good about being prego.. that all she need to know is that your her for her and baby no matter what it's just a shock... and i know she said she wanted to be prego but trust me it's still a shock.. well Congrats
2007-11-06 13:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by Lil mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take responsibility for your actions but so does the girl obviously you didn't get yourself pregnant. Just do your part and ignore her.
2007-11-06 13:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Desiree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BOTH of u need to grow up and take responsibility
2007-11-06 19:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lils 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow Up and be a man. I'm sure you know the consequences of sex, so I don't even know why you would ask such a question.
2007-11-06 13:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Minnesota Gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋