I had a friend who like to use other people and she lies a lot I heard her on the phone. I was thinking if she does that to others she might be that way with me. I tried to avoid her. She never realized it. She invited me to her son's birthday I never go and she told my other friends that I'm cheap because I don't want to spend money on the birthday gift and tell them not to invite me to any special occasions.I still talk to her only when I see her but she still talk with me like I'm her friend but I don't feel that way with her it is my fault to feel that way because I'm usually fair but with her I can't because I don't like her inside.
2007-11-06 05:13:25 · 7 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I distant myself from ppl like that. you don't owe her anything so there's no need to feel guilty.
2007-11-06 09:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you like the kid?
No? Kick her to the curb and don't look back.
Yes? Be polite, and drop-off a gift to the kid *personally*, lest the mother "misplace" the gift and claim you never gave it. You can do it a day or so earlier.
Don't let her pressure you into something you don't want to do. If you have a kid whom is friends with hers, that makes the gift giving even easier!
In any case...if a story comes back to you, admit to the true ones, no matter how embarassing, and deny the false ones, but don't protest to long or hard, or people will think they are true.
Avoid her any time you can, but don't be blatant about it until/unless she pushes the matter too far beyond the boundries YOU are comfortable with.
2007-11-06 13:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by jcurrieii 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the same thing. Actualy i have. your not starting drama which is a good thing. If you feel that as a person she would not be a good friend to you. then you know what ppl you want around yourself. Be confident in your choice but also realize we all lie. just as you have but be open minded. you see something you don't like. It's normal your doing what u feel is right for u.
2007-11-06 13:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by MeLisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's your fault for allowing her to think you like her. I think it's only causing you pain inside because of it. If this friend uses others how do you know she's not using you because she still talk to you? If she doesn't get her way from you she will talk s*** on you to others and be horrible to you. She seems like a nice friend from what you write. It's your fault for deceiving her.
2007-11-06 13:24:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, so I would have called my friend on it and got down, but the best thing is just distance yourself, because if you just tell her you don't wanna be best pals, then she might wolf her sh*t and say you were just being skandalous and might tell your other friends that you are fucke.d up and what not and cause more animosity than there was. trust me, I have heared that a lot from diff. chicks
2007-11-06 14:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt HAVE to go to her sons birtday it was Your choice bot you should had gone to the birthday. She never said anything bad about you did she if she did than it was ok if you had not gone to her sons birthday. It was kind of your fault if she didnt say anything bad about you but it wouldve been her fault if she had said something wrong about you
2007-11-06 13:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by miizzcrazziiee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no some people are like that...its not you..she smokes drugs or something... better call child services on her
2007-11-06 13:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋