In todays society where divorce is at an all time high what has happened to people's word. Entering into marriage today is like playing a board game where when your tired of playing you can simply quit! (As I have posed in my previous question). If your the man in the marriage and your salary does not meet her "qualifications" she feels she has the right to jump ship. I'm not talking about a lazy man that doesnt work but a real man that works hard but just cant seem to make enough money for his gold digging wife!
2007-11-06 04:51:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When people go into marriage with the attitude that if there is something I don't like I will just end it, or what can I get out of this, is there any wonder that divorce is so prevelant? If you ask me, if you are thinking about marriage and are not willing to make a life-long committment and give just as much as you take, then you have no business getting married in the first place.
2007-11-06 04:57:59 · answer #1 · answered by politicallyincorrect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think personally that people ought to take much longer times to know each other before marriage and that means not living together then marrying..but simply getting to know each other first as aquaintences ... even knowing ones family extremely well can tell you about the person you may be looking at for marriage... and then dating without sex and then marriage AFTER each person says exactly what he or she expect from marriage.
2007-11-06 05:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa of America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that the institution of marriage has been cheaped by this instant-gratification "me" generation. So what is the solution? Make divorce unlawful so people will put some thought into the decision before taking the plunge?
2007-11-06 05:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Marriage in todays world is like a game. But if she cannot see who you are for you then she is not worth it. Depending on your age keep trying. Hopefully you will find someone with substance. I know that I am on that journey of finding a man that believes in wedding vows and not someone half his age. Keep up the faith and move on.
2007-11-06 04:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 06:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many couples take their wedding vows seriously today. As soon as the going gets rough the spouse is ready to jump ship.
2007-11-06 04:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in divorce. Some people see it as an easy way out. But if that is how this particular person is, then maybe its for the better. You can't help how they feel about marriage.
2007-11-06 04:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's what happens if one decides to marry a gold digging person.
Some people get married, because of the deep history and special bond that they have. Those types will always work through things.
2007-11-06 04:55:19 · answer #8 · answered by pertinential 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, people give up to easily! There are other vows they take for granted too.
Personally, I don't care about the money, I'd rather have happiness. My current bf is as he puts it "poor", and I have a decent paying job. But it doesn't matter to me if he has $$ or not, he makes me happy and it's his personality I adore, not how fat his wallet is.
2007-11-06 04:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Kona Cutie 33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she feels like "jumping ship" because you don't measure up, hand her a life vest and wish her well.
Wedding vows mean nothing to people anymore. Shame.
2007-11-06 04:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Shubunkin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋