Coming and having an orgasm? My husband says I come an awful lot but I can't tell if I am or not unless I am having an orgasm. I feel silly for asking but I'd like to know the difference.
2007-11-06 04:36:53 · 11 answers · asked by my_own_frog 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know when I have an orgasm but I get very wet during sex so therefore he thinks I'm cumming.
2007-11-06 05:07:09 · update #1
Come & c*u*m = orgasm
C*u*m = male orgasm
Come = female orgasm
:)
2007-11-06 04:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Cochy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yeap same thing, even though what he might call coming, is when you have a larger amount of secretion coming out. that flux is not always regular especially if you have picks in your pleasure but are not going to the orgasm, it's a natural reaction to hydrate your vagina for a longer period. though he should make the difference, don't think guys can't make the difference, someone who knows women and better yet his own usual partner can't be tricked by a fake one or he is just a selfish moron who never paid attention of the body reaction of a woman... Faking is a myth with real gentleman...
another advice you can start to practice tantric love, it can help him and you to understand each other body and have a better control over your pleasure.
but anyway if you get really wet and you reach the orgasm everything is fine it means he gets you excited and is able to make you reach the climax, to me it doesn't sound like a problem but heck why not try to improve what's already good into something awesome :D
have fun and keep making love it's free and beautiful :)
2007-11-06 13:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by endimion29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I have an actual orgasm like a mind blowing orgasm my eyes will roll in the back of ur head and I'll come at the same time...its GREAT!
2007-11-06 21:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by NONAME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its the same. You could just be really wet and it may look like you came but you really didn't. You know what an orgasm feels like, how can he tell you what you had anyway.
2007-11-06 12:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by SUCess84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same thing. It must turn him on to see you get wet (because he thinks you're "coming" but he might be the one ready for an orgasm). Have fun!
2007-11-06 13:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Mikel78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me C is getting tingles and very wet. The same feeling but not as strong as the the big O. The big O is when the tingles become spasms. There is a difference. With the big O every part of me becomes sensitive.
2007-11-06 14:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by amyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the same thing, the word orgasm is just more technical.
He should be able to feel it if you do have one though because all the muscles in your cervix contract.
2007-11-06 12:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ethan-Mikyle's Mommy! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are the same thing, orgasm is just the more technical word.
2007-11-06 12:40:55 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
umm.. if you were cumming.... YOU WOULD KNOW. lol
He's probably just telling you that cause he can't make you ***..... try a different position, or tell him to do oral on you... that should work...
2007-11-06 12:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by Latin G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the same.
2007-11-06 12:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋