Does she even care?

Question

My ex girlfriend is in a new relationship. She's been with this guy for about 3mos. She has been sneaking around his back to see me, talk to me and even have sex with me. She recently moved to Atlanta with this guy, and to this day, she sneaks behind his back to call me, tell me that she still loves me, and still wants me. I'm trying to move on with my life, but I can't ignore how I feel about her. She knows that I still love her, but I'm unsure about her? What is she telling me? Does she still love me? Does she still want to be with me? If so, why is she doing this? How can she love me still, but remains to be with another man?

Answer 1

Things with the other guy aren't going that great, so she wants to make sure she has her fall guy waiting with open arms in case the relationship fails. I know you men appreciate clear cut answers, and it doesn't get any simpler than that! Don't be the fall guy, trust me! If she wanted you for certain, she wouldn't have moved to Atlanta!

Answer 2

It sounds to me that she wants to have her cake and eat it too. She isn't being fair to you or this other guy. You should also keep in mind that if she is willing to cheat on the guy she is living with then she is more than likely going to cheat on you too. It just proves that she has no value for relationships and no respect for the person she is with. If I were you I would tell her to stop calling and to just leave you alone. You will never get over her if she is still keeping a string attached. She probably just wants you there to catch her if her current relationship doesn't work out.

Wash your hands clean of this girl quick. You need to realize that you are better than second best. You should be with a girl that treats you as number one. If you stay with this girl all you're going to end up with is sloppy left overs.

Chalk it up to a lesson learned and realize that it was her loss, not yours.

Answer 3

Your allowing her to accomplish her goal of cheating, lying, and being an obstruction to your life. This is definitely not someone that you should want to be with. If she is willing to cheat on her dude with you then she will definitely be willing to cheat on you and anyone else she dates. If she loves you so much then why doesn't she just leave this dude for you? This is probably a question that you cannot answer because it's a lie and lies cannot be fully justified. She doesn't love you if she is willing to make you secondary to her current boyfriend. True love is shown and known and never has to be questioned by either partner. Don't continue to let this girl string you along because that is all she is doing. Move on with your life and realize that you deserve better. There is someone else out there for you. You can do better.

Answer 4

sounds like she is seriously confused... maybe she needs to know that she can still have you in case things don't work out with her and the new guy. if i were you i would try to move on. stay friends with her if you must but i think it will make it harder on you. you deserve better than what she can give you. if you did get back together you would have to worry about her sneaking around to call/see him or even someone else. good luck

Answer 5

Baby, from a woman's point of view there's a couple reasons why she could be doing this. The first I'll lay on you is she does still love you. That is real. i know becuz there's a lot of ex's in my wing closet that i still have mad love for. I love there and my own special way. what i mean is there's something different about all of them. some don't have wat there other has. some needs what there other's got. and i have yet to find one with it all wrapped up in one. Now she still loves you boo. but maybe shes scared. that if she leaves wat she's got then try it wit you , you might go back to that something that left you for again. Now the next is she could also want you. even need you her life for a reason. wat i mean by this is a friend of is like that. I tell you her story then maybe your understand. she's madly in love with this guy. Really, she is. He's got the Money, House, Car. Treats her like a queen. but, yeah the but had to *** in. lol. the sex with him isn't good. At all. but sex with her ex is on point. they can and does everthing. but she's not in love with him. could never spend the rest of her life wit him. so, she's married the first one. But when needed she ***** the other one. Well i guess you get the point. i hope I've helpped you honey. kisses.

Answer 6

I dont think she loves you I think its lust. Because if she really loved you then she would be with you. Maybe she likes the things the other guy can offer her and doesnt want to leave that either. You have to stop giving her what she wants or shes gonna keep coming back and teasing you and confusing you. If you want to move on then do so.

Answer 7

I think she is still in love with YOU.But for unknown reason she can't be with you, but definetely she loves you.Why else would she sneak out just to be with you.Maybe shes scared to have a steady relationship with you, cause of the problems that you two had, but she still loves You and only You.Even if shes in a relationship now, she thinks about you.

Answer 8

Ok let's go over this very carefully and completely.

A. She is involved sexually with someone else.

B. You say she is going behind his back to have sex with you.

C. You call her sneaky.

D. You are backstabbing her boyfreind with her which makes you equally sneaky and backstabbing.

She is extremely immature and you are also for allowing yourself to be led around by that little bit of flesh which dangles between the legs, sir.

let her go. Grow up. And find a mature and decent woman you can trust and who can trust you.

Answer 9

Hurts to say-but sounds like you are being used 100%

Next time she calls and says she still loves you, tell her you know, that is why you called her boyfriend to tell him about everything. If she flips out about it-you just exposed a liar.

You might not want to ignore your feelings for her, but you might have to. She cheated on you, she's cheating on him, be honest-you could never trust her in your heart and you already know it.

You are using her as an excuse not to move on, just as she is using you. Move on. (No, she doesn't love you.)

Answer 10

To me she sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too. She needs to make up her mind, and you need to leave her alone too, how can you be happy loving somebody who says they love you but they are loving on someone else at the same time. You are her d@#$ in a glass, the "fall back guy". LET IT GO!!