My husband and i are self employed right now, and i take classes online, so i usually sleep in until 10am.. :) But when i wake up before then, my husband gets mad, even angry... like i did something wrong..
I do not understand, if i feel like waking up "early" at 9.. (omgosh) why should it matter...
he likes to watch soccer in the mornings and wakes up to do so..
but this is not fair.. any remarks?
2007-11-06 02:27:01 · 34 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he really is watching soccer :) He is a crazy fan
2007-11-06 02:54:59 · update #1
my husband wakes up early to do this, because he wants time alone to himself and so we can hang out some during the day, he says he does it mainly for me (he watches 2-3 games a day)
2007-11-06 02:56:18 · update #2
There are two answers to this I think. My partner is the other way around, he hates it when I stay in bed and he has to get up.
1) He wants you to be beside him when he awakes and then you can get up together.
2) You make too much noise when you get up early and this wakes him up.
Good luck. Give him a thump from me. Blokes can be sooooo moody in the mornings.
2007-11-06 02:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't suspect your husband is doing anything wrong, but this is probably the only time he gets to spend "alone time". Guys need that every once in a while. They need just an hour or two a day where they are not bothered, have no distractions, and can just watch TV, chat online, play video games, or whatever. And if you two have established a routine of you waking up at 10am, then it throws his routine all off if you wake up early. Maybe you should try telling him that even if you wake up early, that he still has until 10am to do whatever.
2007-11-06 02:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband used to like to sleep in (say Noonish) and I am an early riser - like 5 a.m. I had habits of doing so to do laundry and get things done before I had to go to work. He used to get so mad at me because my morning habits are the same on weekends, too. He would get mad because somehow my waking up would wake him up to.
Over the last year, he now gets up daily by 8:00 a.m., and I sleep in now to 6 or 7 a.m. It shouldn't matter, but people are creatures of habit. I don't think its suspicious, maybe he liked the time alone in the morning-some people do enjoy their own time. Its not fair that he's acting like this, but, give it time. Your schedules will adjust and come back into sync.
Just remember that you aren't doing anything wrong, you are not a tennant, you own the home, too. If he gets angry with you, just walk away and start doing something else someplace else-tell him he's being childish and you aren't going to join him in it.
2007-11-06 02:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How does he get mad at you? Like you have no right to get up that "early" or like he wishes that you would sleep in because he knows you work hard? You might be reading his reaction wrong.
Of if he does get really mad at you, could be that he just needs that little bit of time to decompress and be alone in watching soccer.
2007-11-06 02:31:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He enjoys watching soccer in the mornings and doesn't like being disturbed, when you wake up early. When you do wake up early, why not leave him alone? That's what bothers him. He wants his time alone.
2007-11-06 02:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I suppose its fundamental to appear at what retailer the receipt is from as good as what used to be bought. It would provide you clues as as to if he used to be skipping paintings to do some thing he shouldnt were doing. If its some thing natural, like groceries, perhaps the time used to be incorrect. Try and suppose again to while he bought the object at the receipt. Perhaps its from a deliver retailer and he needed to decide on some thing up for his workplace? If that doesnt aid, I could name, or pass to the shop, and ask the cashiers if the time is more often than not correct and that i could enquire approximately the object that used to be bought at the receipt. Once once more, if its some thing minute, I wouldnt fear approximately. But surely if its some thing that he shouldnt were shopping then you definately will have to surely carry it up.
2016-09-05 11:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by caitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he gets so mad that you wake up "early"....I am inclined to believe that you are intruding in on something that he is keeping from you....I can't imagine a man getting upset that his wife wakes up a bit earlier than normal....very weird to say the least....I mean in all honesty I enjoy just me time...but I would never get angry if my hubby were to get up early and join me in whatever I am doing...
2007-11-06 02:36:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You husband is grouchy in mornings. You need to ignore him if he is unreasonable.Maybe he wants you to lay there as an act of worship towards him. Or maybe he has a very mild case of autism that is un diagnosed and he likes everything to be the same everyday like a routine. My son has autism and he gets mad if I get out of bed before he wakes up.
2007-11-06 02:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is he locked up in another room when he's "watching soccer?" If so, I'd suspect he's IMing or e-mailing other women.
Unless there's something you're leaving out, this sound like the most reasonable explanation.
2007-11-06 02:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is something wrong here. You should wake up more early and see what is he doing. is he talking on phone. I don't know but when people get mad for no reason it means something they are hiding. So don't tell him but wake up early and surprise him.
2007-11-06 03:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋