I give up!!! Any body else fed up of being let down and disappointed??

Question

Hello,

After months of trying and a miscarriage at 7 weeks pregnant in July i have decided to give up trying for a while!

I am 22 years old and recently got married. I am desperate for my first baby.. I recently had a late period (by 3 weeks) And was so excited and about to test when... I got my period!!! It absoloutley gutted me and i feel so fed of being disappointed that i am going to give my body a rest!

I went back on my contraceptive pill 2 days a go - I am going to try and regulate my periods again and wait until the summer of 2008 and try again.

I am just so fed up of being disappointed - Does any body else feel the same out there? x x x

Answer 1

Ahh... yeah. I had my daughter in 2005 and wasn't trying. Then last December I had an early miscarriage and then in April I had a miscarriage at 3 months along. Now I am on my 5th month of trying and no luck yet...

Don't give up tho! I am gonna keep trying until it happens.

Answer 2

I know how you feel I had been trying for years to get pregnant but I guess because I was so stress out my cycle were not reg Never stayed off long enough for me to get pregnant then my faith changed early this year I had a long and painful cycle which led me to the hospital several times they had me takin birth control pill 3 pills a day and the bleeding still didnt stop until I said no more pills then 2 weeks later my period stop March 2 2007 never forget it then march 30 it was on again and I though Damn! but to my suprise 7 days later it went off so my and my husband tried to get pregnant nothing every month on the 30 there was my cycle but then in May it was one day late and in June nothing July 30 I was 4 weeks pregnant I'm due April 3rd So don't let anything discourge you keep tryin.

Answer 3

I am right there with you. After being 10 days late I thought for sure we were pregnant but no we weren't. Hubby and I decided after 15 months ttc and 3 rounds of Clomid, charting and opk's to wait until after the holidays to start thinking about what we want to do. We will see my doctor again in January and see if she suggests we see a specialist. I am not taking birth control now so I guess it could happen but we are just not trying to chart and time everything. I have been about 5 days or so without charting and I am loving it. I had one day of regret that I was maybe wasting this month but we were getting so stressed. And it isn't worth ruining our great marriage. I don't want a baby if I can't have my husband. I think one of the greatest joys will be seeing him be a dad. I can't wait but the holidays coming up are a good distraction for now. Best wishes and don't give up hope!!!!

Answer 4

It can seem so cruel that those who try the hardest are often those who cannot get pregnant. I think that stressing out about it has a lot to do with it. One thing that has really helped me in the last few months, at least emotionally, is that I just stopped tracking ovulation. We still BD regularly, but I'm not always counting dpo, fertile days, etc. It has helped me relax and just have fun. Good luck to you!

Answer 5

I think we've all been in your shoes. My husband and I have been TTC since we got married last year. Last month (Oct) AF was late and I foolishly got my hopes up, only to get it ON my 1st anniversary! It was such a let down and I was an emotional wreck all day. I told my hubby last night that if I get AF (this weekend) then I'm going to take a few months off TTC to hopefully regain my sanity. I wish you the best of luck!

Answer 6

I was in your same spot a little over a year ago. We had tried...and had a miscarriage. I wasnt sure it was ever gonna happen and I was so disappointed with it. And I gave up too...and you know what happened? I gave birth to our beautiful daughter Alexia about 3 weeks ago. Dont be too discouraged sweetie....all in good time. Best of luck to you and your husband.

Answer 7

I know it's hard for some people and easy for others and even though you want to wait until next year don't lose faith. Make sure you visit the doctor to make sure you can conceive. Good luck & God bless.

Answer 8

Yes. Watch you will give up and just have fun and I bet you you will fall pregnant:) happened to me and so many others I heard of

Answer 9

Don't take your pills.Relax.Don't even think about it just live-a baby will come.You have stressed yourself out beyond what your body can handle-it's no wonder you can't get pregnant.I am sorry for your loss...be patient.Calm.Don't take your pills.

Answer 10

Sadly it always seems the harder you try the less chance you have- just forget all about it - and trust in nature