I am a sexualy active male that doesn't condon masterbation cause it goes against my principles. The actually act is fine, just what it takes to get there, is what horrifies me. I want to know how other teens deal with the issue of their sexuality, and how others are able to abstine.
2007-11-05 22:48:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Anyone who says that everyone either masturbates or lies about it is just wrong. Just because a person can't keep his hands out of his pants, he shouldn't think that people with different ways from his of coping with sexuality are lying. That is arrogant beyond belief.
You say you are sexually active, so maybe increasing your sexual activity is all that is needed. Or work out, go out for sports, or just work really hard, physically or mentally, on something that is so important to you that you have no idle time for masturbation.
I personally have no moral inhibitions against masturbation, although I find it totally unappealing, so I don't do it. But you say it IS against your principles, so don't let anyone try to push you into abandoning your principles. Your principles may change over time as you mature, but your principles should be governed by what YOU believe, not by what someone else is trying to ridicule you into believing.
2007-11-06 05:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by Maple 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you have some personal hangups and preconcieved ideas. Need to get over them and learn more about your body and respect what it can do, not be afraid or appalled at the whole process. Most importantly, don't let society dictate to you what you should or should not do with your body and your sexuality. That is solely your decision to make.
2007-11-06 06:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand you because we have the same principle, but for I advice you to make your life busy like sports, so that you can minimise thinking sexual desire.
Participate any activities in you school or church and be cool
2007-11-06 00:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dellz 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your question is a little obscure. There is nothing wrong with masturbation but if you don't like it, don't do it, but don't then complain that you are sexually frustrated
2007-11-05 23:54:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry your question is unclear ....
however, if i understood what you wanted to say ...then i think i was in the same position and my solution was that i got married ...
i don't know about you or your age ... but this is one solution if i understand what your question was in first place :)
2007-11-05 22:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by A Friend 4ever 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shut up and just beat it like it picked on you in middle school.
2007-11-06 00:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by jake 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why deny yourself? if you have a working hand , then thats what its for, just think what you would have to do,if you didnt have any hands?? now, show yourself, just how lucky you are, having hands.... its a daily thing, like brushing your teeth....
2007-11-06 00:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are two types of people in this world.
1.Those who masturbate
2. Those who masturbate and deny that they do it.
2007-11-05 22:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
Apparently, you should handle it with something other than your hands. Seriously, just jerk-off. No one will know and you'll feel better and can think about more important things. Or get a girlfriend and have her jerk you. More fun that way...
2007-11-06 00:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
screw your religion and just do it, theres nothing wrong about, what ever your religion says about it, ignore. are you gonna believe sum weird princeples made by people who thought the world was flat? cmon, get out there and try some new things, this being one of them
2007-11-05 23:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋