At first I got kind of scared because he said he was writing some female prisoners that he found on the internet, but then I found out they were only in prison for non-violent crimes so that made me kind of feel a little bit better, but now he says one of them is getting out and he wants to meet her and I'm just a little worried because I don't know her. He says not to worry and that she is nice.
2007-11-05 20:56:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what does he hope to gain, what is his motive? i would be upset because he is married to u not them. she may be nice but she may also be seeking a relationship too. i would not think it proper if it were my husband.
2007-11-05 21:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that we are not to judge others, but that is besides the point. He is your husband and he has no business writing other females (inmates). Now, he wants to meet them... Did he forget he was married? There is a serious problem that you need to handle up on. Put your foot down and stand up for yourself.
Let him know that writing these females is out of the question. How would he feel if the situation were reversed?
I bet he wouldn't like it if you wanted to meet some guy that is getting out of prison. -That is just crazy.
I'd kick him out with all his clothes just for being stupid.
2007-11-05 21:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see if I got this right. Your in a plural marriage. YOu and Jessica have both been pregnant by your husband. You have had CD's that don't belong to you broken by him. He spanks you or otherwise treats you like a little girl and your asking if it is ok for him to write women who have been or are in prison.
Hmmmm Whats wrong with this picture.
Grow up and stop the ridciulous asking of questions this is getting tiring.
2007-11-08 02:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be ok with that. Your husband wants to meet this woman? Why on earth would a happily married man want to meet some woman he doesnt even know? How would he feel if the tables were turned? It doesnt matter how nice she is she is a stranger. Is he attracted to this woman or do they have something going on? I would ask him these questions and you can tell by his reactions how much this other woman means to him.
2007-11-05 21:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by sweetlady82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should commit a non-violent crime as well and be sent to prison. That way your husband can write to you.
2007-11-08 12:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by GeorgiaPeaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must say,you seem to have one strange relationship.lf your husband is writing to women in prison,then wanting to meet up with them,l think l would be packing my bags.You cannot possibly have a loving,caring relationship if he is wanting to proceed with this.You both must be drifting apart for this to have happened.l feel for you,but l would not be hanging around.Sorry.No way known would l be playing second fiddle to any other woman.
2007-11-05 21:07:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ruby Jane 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to be insecure. But I suggest that you convince your husband not to meet any of those prisoners, they maybe bad influence or may come from one of the Mafia gang. Just keep yourselves safe all the time.
2007-11-05 21:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like someone has a little "Prison Chick" fantasy going on, so he's going to meet a chick that just got out of prison, and I suppose what she really wants is a "Hot Fudge sunday", right ?
2007-11-05 21:01:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
And you are okay with this? If so that is fine but even though they were in there for non violent crimes don't mean they have not done something violent and just not have gotten caught
2007-11-05 21:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by rene1695 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WORRY!!! This is just like cheating. He thinks it is "safer" because he can't bump into them on the street. But now he can. Nothing good can come of this.
2007-11-06 05:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋