my wife prefers endowed?

Question

We have been married for 3 years one of the things my wife once said to me will never get out of my mind. She said her previous man was over 9" and said to me she misses something large. I am not small I thought over 7.5" but now it has given me a complex for why she said it and what she had before. Would it be true once a woman had endowed man she would still be at times thinking of the experience. With woman of the same experience what would my wife be missing out now with me.

Answer 1

Some women tend to talk about how big they like it. Then when they get it they complain it hurts. Go figure.

Answer 2

This is getting into the realm of technique and size and shape. Consider some of the following, but only do the ones which you feel comfortable with. If you are uncomfortable, she will notice and feel a bit 'off.'

1.) Speak to her sincerely and find out what it is that she REALLY likes the most. Try to do that.

2.) Copy of the Kama Sutra can be an interesting evening of experimentation.

3.) Go shopping with her for some sex toys. and remember, no "oh, my god" comments, or "Have you ever seen something like that before?" Go into the store with an open mind and see what both of you might like. You will probably get a smile or two.

4.) if you have no moral objections to using animal fur, a fur mitt can feel very sensual on the skin.

At 7.5 inches, you have the correct equipment. Size is not important. Technique is the area to concentrate on. If the internal plumbing still works -- even better. This situation can be about exploring and getting her to enjoy what you have to offer. After a few months, she will be saying "I don't need Mr. Large, I have all I need right here."

Best of luck to you both....Finn.

Answer 3

dont worry man, maybe she just wants a
"big one" and you can give it to her! here is how, go to a "se.. shop" by a "p..nis extender" but dont tell her (have it as a surprise) when she comes home have the lights off so she doesnt see it, this thing can make you 3, 5 inches bigger and thicker. There are different materials, I recommend the higher end that are called "ciber skin" material. Put it on before she even undresses you. once you are in say, you want something large, well here it is! and BUM!
Obviously Im not saying use it all the time cause yours sucks!!!! Im saying try to fulfill one of her fantasies, she will greatly appreciate it if you go with confidence and stop feeling insecure about it. Some people might say you dont need that, and I agree you dont, but your wife does, and you have to at least TRY to do waht she likes, dont forget this might be a fantasy and she might love it or not, but maybe one day she will fulfill one of yours.
Pay attention to her needs and she will do the same. Woman might think of "back then" but you should try on the "NOW"
and use all your power of "persuassion" just a thought! And please buddy dont be insecure, use it well! and to do this, first you have to believe in yourself and know that there is a reason why she married you and that you CAN do things "bigger" and better for her, from time to time.

Answer 4

Okay, here's the deal. After a few inches, the nerve endings stop and physically size doesn't matter, sometimes it can even be a problem, but psychologically size does matter. A larger penis is an attractive quality for some women, but you're not exactly lacking in that department and she obviously 'got off' before and she married you.

She's fine with it sexually. The problem is that maybe you're not doing it for her in other ways, foreplay, kissing and touching ect. Ask your wife what she wants as far as sexual favors go. Let her give you directions. Maybe she's really longing for variety, try something new, spice it up. She may not be very knowledgable about sex or her sexuality and is blaming size for a problem she doesn't have the words to communicate. Many women are socialized to be sexually inhibited.

Answer 5

The problem is not you, (average for a man now is a little over 5", not 6 like people think) but that her previous man has stretched her open. I dealt with this once before with a girlfriend (I am quite a bit larger than average myself) but in her words "He was hung like a horse!" (double digits +) The only thing for your wife to do is exercises with her vagina and abs. She should practice pushing like having a baby and Kegal exercises. The pushing will contract the internal walls and give her the ability to actually feel your penis all the way down to the head inside of her. It takes practice on her part and can cause some sweat. There are other exercises as well in the Karma Sutra books. Don't let it get to you. It is more her problem than yours and it is physical which can be dealth with easily if she wants to.

Answer 6

Dear Friend. Your wife is impressed by her ex friend, who had his penis lengnth as 9". However if she is your wife now, she should not have uttered such words before you. Your is also 7.5" which is not too small. I make it clear to you that penis legnth has nothing to do with satsifaction of woman. The important characterist ic wich a man must have is the hardness of penis, which actually works during intercourse. You should not loose heart, If she says like this, ask her to go to a donkey who has much more length than his ex b/f. Any how you **** her as often as possible and as different posuture as you know, so that she will scream when you will have intercourse with her. You must keep her before you, her face upward but her legs and pelvis must be up placing a pillow under her buttock, and put her legs on your shoulders you insert your penis as deep as possible and she will scream and willl say that it is too much. Good Luck

Answer 7

i think your wife would like you to feel that there is something lacking in your relationship. and i believe she used this "need" as an example and she does not really referring to the lustful translation. I still remember what my professor in psychology said, women usually attack men by referring to their endowment since man's ego is very weak when it comes to this. And most of time, you have to trace the problem to get the meaning. hope my memory is still okey. good luck and make the relationship bloom...

Answer 8

I don't think she really misses it physically as much as the memory of it giving her pleasure. It is a good memory period. As you have your own unforgetable experiences, she has she. It was kinda mean and cruel of ther to say so but, I guess she was being honest about it. What you can only do is do the best with what you have. Talk to her about it, tell her how you feel and let the chips fall where they may. Or if it really bothers you that much, seek counselling. Good luck.

Answer 9

Size matters to an extent. It's very possible she said that to make you jealous. It could also be a lie! Women are crazy and should never be underestimated, but honey, you don't have a micropenis, and if she really didn't like it i doubt she would have married you! I wouldn't worry!

Answer 10

For women, you will find a lot of the satisfaction comes from within the 'mind'. So don't worry about your physical attributes... and don't worry about that comment she made .... that will only make you insecure... concentrate on loving your wife... and that is the big turn-on for any woman. :)

Answer 11

i don't know about other woman, and those who say "size doesn't matter" make me laugh and think they atually never had anyone with size. so i will tell u about myself -my hubby is very well endowed. very well. but somehow i really don't know whether it is normal or not he feels pleasure only on the top of his penis. so for him it is enough to insert only the top so say he inserts like maybe 4 inches or smth and it is pleasurable for him. so usually when we re having sex he is inserting it all the way just for me. but sometimes when he is tired or just lazy he iserts only the top (those 4 lousy inches or smth) - i do not feel anything. nothing at all. it makes me extremely mad. i need size inside of me. so i am sorry pal, but if she had a big one she probably doesn't feel anything and faking it all the time.


and was reading what some of them wrote. especially that dumb woman who wrote that after some inches feeling stopps - is she abnormal or smth? it just starts after some inches. the deeper it gets the more pleasure a woman gets