My son is very athletic and has alot of friends that hang-out at our house on week-ends, my husband seems jealous because I'm nice to my son's friends and they like to talk to me about things. How can I make my husband understand there is no reason to be jealous?
2007-11-05 17:23:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is obviously jealous because........these are young men who you give attention to when they come over. To them you may seem like a second mother. To your husband he may think they want your cookie and that they are flirting with you!
2007-11-05 18:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband might be jealous because of the way that you act around the boys have you taken a step back and thought about if you act any differently around those young men than you would on any other occasion maybe you are intentionally trying to get hubby jealous so he will show feelings torward you maybe you and your husband need some alone time to reflect on what you need from each other not just physical but also emotional needs
2007-11-05 17:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by colaone_20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly are you doing around them? Im not saying you trying to seduce them or anything, but try to see it from his perspective. Imagine if you had a pretty, popular daughter and all the pretty popular girls were over and all hanging off of him? Not so innocent there? Thats what you look like. This doesnt mean your a tart- you just need to remember that men suck at hint communication- be direct, and back off the teen meat. You can be polite and friendly but you're not these boys friends. And wear high cut blouses.
2007-11-05 17:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems like a stupid thing but it could possibly be a lot deeper than it appears. As strange as this sounds he may not have ahd a lot of freinds wen he was ur sons age and therefor is negativly effected when you give attention to them as opposed to him. Another reason could be that as achild he or one of his freinds had some kind of a relationship (or the intention to create one) With someones mother and is trying to protect you. U might think this sounds stupid but trust me it is more common than u think
2007-11-05 17:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jason C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with some of the other postings, if your a hot mom, then you might rethink the way you are acting around them.
Here's some questions to ask yourself:
Do they call you "mom"?
Do they only want you to cook for them?
Are they ignoring you most of the time??
If you answer no, then your hubby is seeing stuff your not.
If you answer yes, then the hubby might be out of line and you can tell him to cool his jets.
2007-11-05 17:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, in case you adult adult males have been friends for sixteen years, she might experience some deep connection with you. perchance her husband would not hear to her ramblings and he or she can in basic terms communicate in self assurance to you. in basic terms soak in regardless of she says products at a time and take a glance at to tell her which you're in basic terms not waiting to allow circulate of your son's infant outfits in basic terms yet. additionally, attempt to allow her comprehend that pushing you around shouldn't do diddly-squat except this is quid professional quo! :) (btw, congratulations on a son!)
2016-10-01 23:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by pepin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't you become jealous if your husband was talking to hot younger women?
2007-11-05 17:33:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm....maybe because he's noticing things that you don't...since you are still sexy and hot...maybe he is sensing that your son's friends find you pretty and attractive and that makes him jealous....when you're in your bedroom...reassure him that he's the only guy for you...your husband just needs a little reassurance and a lot of love....poor guy....
2007-11-05 17:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are giving your husband no reason to be jealous of these gorgeous males?????
2007-11-05 17:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by veraswanee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...How old is your son and his friends? are they above 18 and what is your age ( I am sorry to ask to a woman..but ..still)..Hope you may LOOK young (if possible ...very..).....and if YES....then that is the reason.....and no point in blaming him...this is not jealous..it is 'possessiveness'.
2007-11-05 22:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋