I'm scared of dying?

Question

I just want to be beautiful, loved... even starving myself won't bring that feeling to me. I can count my ribs... I can see my spine... my bones.. isn't that enough? What's it all worth anyway? To feel loved?

Answer 1

Get some help. And eat. Seriously, there's no other joy like eating.

Answer 2

Honey if your scared of dying you need to get help fast. It is not right to able to count your ribs and be able to see all your bones including your spine. Girl your sick and you need help. Being loved is NOT worth killing yourself. And that is exactly what you are doing, slowly but surely. Love alone is not worth it. You need to live your life to the fullest to discover love. True love comes from the life you live, it doesn't come from trying to make someone else love you. I hope you take this advice and get some help quick!! Don't be afraid your one step closer to getting it done by asking this question over the world wide web. Please get some help!! And remember to feel and know true love you need to LIVE YOUR LIFE to it's fullest. Good Luck and Take Care in all that you do.

Answer 3

Well stop thinking about it. No guy's going to be interested in a girl who obsesses about her weight and appearance. If your ribs are showing, then you're too skinny!! Trust me, I live with guys, I've always been the girl in the guy group and I know how they talk and the things they say. Guys don't find girls like you attractive. They tease the skinny ones just as much as the fat ones and they say the same things that girls say about guys when they're being mean. You've got to look in the mirror and ask yourself what you want to be like. Not what you want people to think of you, but what are the things you really like? Even when your mates tease you about it. What music? What clothes? What makeup? Once you've found these things, and they might change as time goes, you'll be so much happier. Because you'll be doing the things you want to do. And trust me, your friends might tease you for a while, but in the long run, they will respect you a lot more for finding your own style, your own flair and your own look that YOU like. Then you will find a guy who likes you for the same reason- because you're comfortable being YOU. Once you've found yourself, you will find true love and you'll know it's love because they've picked you out of the crowd for being you and they'll never want you to change or hide that. NEVER change for someone else. NEVER be afraid to step away from the crowd and never be afraid to like the things YOU like.

Answer 4

It is impossible to love someone else fully unless you love yourself first. That is something I find to be true. We all have many things about our body we want to change. God has a plan, but we all have choices in our lives. I am sorry you feel so much pain. There is help out there, you must choose to get it and take what you learn and apply it to your life. When you get well you can then help others with your story of recovery. You must not do this alone. There are so much to be thankful for. Try and redirect your focus onto solid things that can make you feel good, things that make you laugh. find fun. Talk to God-listen to him he will help you step by stp of the way. I will pray for you. I am not a bible thumper but when you need to go back to the basics, you just do. And you need to. Soul searching can be the most important part, along with medication- you can get well.

Answer 5

Dying is a very real result of what you are doing to yourself! Being thin won't guarantee love! Learning to love yourself and being confident in the inner you is what attracts and maintains a relationship.
You will need professional help learning to eat again. And support for the physical damage you have done to your internal organs and bones. Do not wait! Ask for help now so that dying is not in your near future.

Answer 6

Beauty is at the eye of the beholder. Everyone has different perspective of beautiful, but if you don't feel good about yourself, if you don't think you are beautiful yourself, you will not be beautiful. Since you cannot accept yourself, how can u expect some1 to accept you! if you don't love yourself, no matter how much love you received, you will not feel loved. Happiness start from within...
P.S: nobody like girls that look sick and skinny, so live healthy!! =)

Answer 7

Being skinny won't bring love. As thin as your describing sound like illness will be soon. It's not worth it.
You can't sit alone with this. Go to someone you can trust. If your in school go to the counselor, their trained to get some help for you. If adult get some counseling. It can get turned around. Good Luck, your worth it.

Answer 8

Like my mother always used to tell me, you are only judged by what is on the inside. I myself suffered from bullimia at a young age, which was a result from peer pressure and being told to lose weight by my ballet teacher. I suffered from many health issues; I was always falling ill, my periods stopped and my hair started falling out. I realised that I should just quit ballet and enjoy the quality of life before it got too late. I saw the look of pain on my mothers face when I wouldn't eat dinner and although it was hard at first, I built up the amount I ate day by day.
First I started on healthy foods such as wholemeal toast for breakfast, salad for lunch and chicken breast for dinner but eventually I built up a liking to food again and felt much, much healthier.
All I had to think about was how my family and friends would suffer if I died from a self inflicted cause and this snapped me out of it,
I think the best advice I would be able to give to anyone would be to talk to someone you trust and get them to help you build your confidence up.
There are many sites that help with eating disorders and low self esteem.
http://www.something-fishy.org/
http://www.ydyc.org/index.php?option=content&task=view&id=44&Itemid=

Good luck honey, and I hope you realise that life is too valuable to waste away. Everyone loves you, your family and friends, no matter what you look like. It is what is inside that counts.

BEAUTY IS ONLY SKIN DEEP.

Answer 9

there's nothing beautiful about being able to see your bones. the whole "get super skinny" thing is a joke.
please, eat some food, go to the doctor, and realize that looking skinny will not get you loved by the people that matter, the ones who like YOU, not what you look like.

Answer 10

The feeling of love is wonderful and with your lovely looks you can find a boyfriend anytime you want to

Answer 11

Put some mayo on your sammich sister...

Then toddle your ars down to your local hospital and take a peeksy at the sick kids that are actually dying. That should put it all into perspective for ya.