its late in the middle of the night where we are and so we cant go to the doctor.
my friend lost her virginity a few days ago, and said she had a lot of blood during. by a lot she said she means like if you were on ur period and it covered the base of ur pad. she thought it was nothing just her hymen breaking. then earlier she and her bf were fooling around and she was fingering herself to get him off and she pulled her fingers out and they had blood on them, and she went to the bathroom and wiped off and there was some blood (light) on the toilet paper. shes scared and this never happened to me so idk. Is this serious? Can she just go to the doctor in a few days? What is going on? There was no pain when she fingered herself.
Please help!!!
2007-11-05 17:06:05 · 9 answers · asked by Mikki Lynn Breisch 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
she CANT go to the emergency room cuz if her mom finds out she had sex, she'll kick her out cuz shes a pastor, an my friend is only 17 her mom will wanna know why she needs to go!!!
2007-11-05 17:11:00 · update #1
it be her period if not i donno, i guess go to the dr if it doesnt stop in a few days
2007-11-05 17:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible she started her period, or has extra "pipe leakage" from her last period. he could have be rubbing her vaginal walls to roughly and caused a small tear, and she could have scratched herself with her fingernails. theres many explainations. some people have bleeding the first few times the have sex because of the stretching of the canal. its very normal, but if it continues, see a doctor asap. just in case. i wouldnt worry right now though.
2007-11-06 01:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by Music Box 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's most likely just blood from her loosing her virginity. I bled for a few days after I lost mine. I don't think it's anything to worry about.
2007-11-06 08:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How rough were they in the sack? Could have been some slight tearing?! She isn't on her period now is she (being the end/beginning of the month)? If it's a steady flow, I would definitely check in at the e-merg.
2007-11-06 01:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
most likely it will heal if she does not fool around with it for a while. try more than a few days.. go a week or something and it will probably heal on its own.
2007-11-06 01:11:08 · answer #5 · answered by David 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think you have to worry. Wait til the AM & make a GYN appt so your friend will feel more relaxed.
I hope they used protection.
Good luck, you're a good friend.
2007-11-06 01:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by knicname 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally after you lose your virginity you can have light bleeding for a few days.
2007-11-06 01:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by just_me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's normal... after a female lost her virginity... she is supposed to have a lil' bleeding...
2007-11-06 07:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by pink crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your friend is concerned, she can go to nearest hospital EMERGENCY ROOM which is open 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
2007-11-06 01:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋