2007-11-05 16:55:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he needed time out. Yes, I would reply if he contacts you. How else will you sort out the differences? Do you love him? And why did he want to be on his own? Communication is so important, so unless you know its over and the real reasons why he moved out, then you really do need to talk to him to find out where his head is at.
2007-11-05 17:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My heart says stuff him. To provide your wife and hurt her with such a pathetic excuse is indeed cowardly. He wants to be on his own, well then enjoy your own company without my contact!
My head on the other hand says it really depends what you want out of this. Do you have kids? Why is he contacting you? Is he willing to be more honest about the situation, 'be on your own' is really vague.
Rather than have him call the shots, you need to spend some time to determine what is it you want for your future and start moving towards that - with or without him.
2007-11-06 01:10:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tracey H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure! Talk to him if he contacts you, but don't initiate contact with him on your own. If he were to call, I'm sure it would be easy to say something sarcastically--"Oh, I thought you wanted to be A-LONE!" But do your best not to do that. Let him know that you're there for him as a friend first of all, and that if there's every anything he needs, he can turn to you because you care. Then leave it all up to him. Respond when he calls and try to be civil...as much as it may hurt.
2007-11-06 01:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on so much...but if he left you to 'be on his own' why is he calling you? is he calling when he needs something from you? your support? to be sure you're still hurting/waiting? my thought is...if he wants to be on his own, he needs to be on his own without you being available when he wants contact...but wait! forget what HE needs, what do YOU need? probably not someone who has so little regard for you as to move out to 'be on his own' but keeps coming back on his terms...hmmmm, yeah, I'd say figure out what you want and need and THEN consider where he does (or doesn't) fit into that.
2007-11-06 01:15:57 · answer #4 · answered by abiona 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the relationship is over. Why would you want to continue the relationship with someone that left you for such an asinine reason?
2007-11-06 00:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to talk to him but I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't want to be with me
2007-11-06 01:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by rene1695 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
on this matter follow your heart . but why would you have to do what he wants you to not to bright my opion/
2007-11-06 01:14:37 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, tell him that he is on his own.
2007-11-06 03:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. He's move on and so should you.
2007-11-06 01:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Level 7 is Best 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want more of the same .. i wouldnt
2007-11-06 01:05:28 · answer #10 · answered by rpetch007 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋