How should i tell my father about personal issues such as getting my period and yeast infections?

Question

I am 13 years of age. My mom sadly passed 3 years ago. I recently got my period and think i have a yeast infection. How should i tell him about these things in a way to avoid awkwardness? Any helpful tips are greatly anbliged.

Answer 1

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Oh, come on people? 8 thumbs down? Just making a little joke, jeez...

I know it's a serious question, and she received (as of right now) 33 serious responses! What's wrong with interjecting a little levity? Lighten up!

Answer 2

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Do you have a female relative that you are close to? An aunt or grandmother? They may be able to help you with personal things that might be awkward or embarrassing to your dad.
Maybe even your counselor or social worker at school would be able to help you?
Otherwise, you might try just a matter-of-fact approach. It sounds like you are knowledgeable about what you need and what to do, so maybe just straightforward--"Dad there are some girl things I need at the pharmacy. I know what to get. Can you take me?"
The only thing I could think of that might complicate it is if he doesn't understand that girls can get yeast infections even if they are not sexually active--he may freak out if he doesn't understand. That's why I suggested you might need the help of a female relative or school staff person--just in case he doubts you. You might even tell him that you need to go to the doctor and you could describe it as a bladder infection and then when they check you out they will treat you for whatever it is and explain it to him very professionally and clinically. This might cost a bit more than a trip to the pharmacy, but it might also take some of the awkwardness out of it.

Once you get well, you need to keep some yogurt with active cultures on hand and eat it regularly--this may help prevent you getting another yeast infection. You also need to make sure you wear cotton lined panties.

Hope that helps!

Answer 3

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. I know this time in your life, growing into a young woman is awkward, even with a mom. Your dad is a grown-up, he already knows all about what women go through. I would tell you to talk to an aunt,grandma, or even the school nurse, but you still need to tell him because he has to go buy you the things you need. Try and remember that this will probably be awkward for him too! But he knows the time is coming. Just tell him, you started your period,and could he go buy you what you need. As far as the yeast infection they make over the counter stuff for that, you could probably throw the monistat in the cart when you go get your other supplies, if he says anything just say "dad! I need it. Due to his embarassment he will just get it.
If you have an aunt or grandma close, you may want to call them, thay can take you to the store, and help you with your other problem, they will probably even tell your dad for you.
I know its embarrassing, its part of growing up and becoming a lady, just know your dad loves you!

Answer 4

I am sorry for your loss and I know how you're feeling. My mother died when I was a baby and it was hard for both my father and I to talk about sensitive issues. I luckily had a wonderful aunt who helped me through all those awkward moments...the first period, the sanitary supplies, dealing with the cramps, the first bra, the yeast infections....perhaps there is a trusted family member like an aunt or cousin who could help you. If not, tell your father you're having a female problem and think you should see a gynecologist for your first check-up.

Answer 5

If talking face to face is too uncomfortable, maybe writing him a letter will be easier for you.

Another thing is that he's already had some experience with women's health, since he knew your mother. It's completely normal for you to be shy, but he probably knows a lot more about women's biology than you might have guessed. Even if you've never said it before, he's probably heard it before, and will have some idea how hard it is for you to talk about.

I know a single father with daughters, and he really wants all the best for them, including being healthy. In fact, he buys tampons for them, when they're on the shopping list.

Answer 6

I am very sorry for your loss. Your mother will be in my prayers...

As for approaching your father, I would just be direct about it. Most men can't take hints, and at the same time, most men don't want to hear about that kind of stuff, but you have to tell him. Just be up front about it...you could start out by saying, "I know this is awkward, but I recently got my period and I think I might have a yeast infection. Do you mind making an appointment for me? I know that this is weird, but your my dad, and I have to be able to talk to you about this kinda stuff. ..."

Hope this helps...

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with discussing issues with your father. He's your parent, and, while it might be awkward, he's available. And if you're wondering if he might have any answers for you..... yes, he does. It might be embarrasing at first, but when he knows you can go to him for anything, it breaks down a lot of those barriers.
Really, if you can discuss your period and yeast infections with your daddy.... everything else is a breeze!
Maybe if you start with something like, "the school nurse suggested I ask you.... "
Or 'Dad... I think I need to ask you something about female issues... " Or "Daddy, could you take to to see a nurse, I have some questions, and don't know who to ask... "

Answer 8

First, I would ask him if he is comfortable talking with you about personal issues such as this. If he is then I would just discuss it the same as you have here. He understands that these are common health issues for women. If he is not comfortable talking about these things, is there another relative ( aunt, etc ) you might be able to talk to?

I think it's great that you are not shy about seeking help. Your parents have obviously raised you right. You are a very mature young woman. Good luck!!

Answer 9

you probably want to tell him about the yeast infection but the period not so much or do u have an aunt or grandma or older sis that can talk to him for u or tell him u don't feel good and u want to see the doctor ask ur doc if he/she can tell ur dad what u r going through but be prepared for some akwardness

Answer 10

Im sorry about your mom, but being a guy i can tell you that all you need to do is tell him you think you have an infection and ask him to take you to the doctor. him being a father will only want to help you get better, Tell/ask your father anything there probably wont be an awkward moment unless you ask in public.

Answer 11

just tell him that you would like to see a doctor for a check up. He should take the hint that you are having woman issues. I know it would be hard to talk to him about these things. Maybe you have another female family member that you can talk to and she can tell you Dad. At 13 unless you are having sex, I don't think you would have a yeast infection.