I have already had 4 children, and my baby is almost 6, I desperately want one more, but I feel this calender is not helping. It says my best days to conceive would be starting this saturday, would it be wise to just start tonight or tomorrow? I ask because I usually want to be with my husband right after my period is over, but I make myself wait a week to try on the best days, should I just be trying when I desire him?, or should I keep waiting?. It's been 9mos, and still no baby. My mother had 18, and I have never had any trouble in the past, what could be wrong?. The only thing that is different is this bubble feeling in my lower left side that aches, but the doctors says everything looks good. But I sense something just isn't right.
2007-11-05 13:16:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
there in lies the problem-calendars are no good at sex...try a man.
2007-11-05 13:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by berlytea 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Calenders dont give out babys.. god does :P. But i would just do the bd when you desire it.. and then when the calender says you should. The calenders aren't always right.. ovulation changes month to month with some people.. that's how some women can get pregnant when they're on their period. Just do it often and you cant miss it. that's what im doing and i so hope it works for both of us!
2007-11-05 14:05:21 · answer #2 · answered by still[[hopefull]]k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we were ttc, we tried to go by the calender, well we used the calender way for four months and nothing, then on the fifth month, we just had sex every day and then we were pregnant. Calender goes by "average" women ovulation, but most women dont ovulate with the "averages." I would not use the calender as a reliable way to get pregnant. Goodluck!
2007-11-05 13:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you can't rely on those calanders to get pregnant.
And I don't think anything is wrong with you.
As far as waiting or starting tomorrow...
HAVE SEX WHENEVER YOU FEEL LIKE IT.
if anything, it will just give you more chances :]]
It can't hurt anything.
2007-11-05 13:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by xhigh_above_the_cloudsx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is what I bought ....
A Basal Body Temperature (Did it every morning at 7:00A.M)
Ovulation Predictor tests at 10:00A.M.
and
Fertilityfriend.com and it worked!
Im happy!
good luck
2007-11-05 13:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dc said the best thinbg is to have sex every 2-3 days
2007-11-05 14:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by Working Mum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep having sex.
Lots of it.
But,
follow the calendar if you want,
it can't hurt.
2007-11-05 13:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by cambrexia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would do it every day.
2007-11-05 13:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by emesumau 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋