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Ok please humour me as per this question as I am totally naive about all matters sexual (a virgin and plan to remain one for a very long time).
My question is if males derive as much or more pleasure from any form of sex than females. And if it is equal or lesser, than why is there always the portayal of men with insatiable sexual desires etc.
I am asking this because in pornography, films etc. I have noticed that the females are always moaning and screaming etc. and the men have either no outward emotion, or have exaggerated grunts or maybe a bit of loss of breath. Based on that, it seems like women enjoy it more...but by the portrayal of men it would appear that they are the ones who enjoy it more and thus want it more.
Comprende? LOL.
Remember: totally naive

Thanks

2007-11-05 12:40:15 · 4 answers · asked by Vampie 7 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

Oh let me put it this way: are men as loud as women in real life during sex?

Thanks for all the replies:)

2007-11-05 12:49:45 · update #1

4 answers

It's much easier for most men to derive more pleasure out of sex than it is for most women. It is easy to turn men on it is much harder to turn women on -- men and women can both derive the same amount of pleasure from it if they are turned on.

Men *can be (but by no means always/often are) lazy when it comes to this, i.e. turning women on, whereas they themselves can get off very easily, and it is generally much easier to turn men on. And in my humble opinion, women tend to (only generally speaking) be more inclined to put more effort in.
Resulting in the men being more turned on, thus enjoying it more.
Which is why men are portrayed as liking sex more than women.

I think the pleasure is equal.
It is much harder for a man to distinguish when a woman is getting pleasure than vice versa due to obvious physical changes in a man as opposed to the far less obvious physical changes in a woman. Hence all the moaning and screaming in porn, so that the men know the women are enjoying it.
That the man is enjoying it is simply assumed, since sex wouldn't be possible if they weren't.
Hope that answers your question.

2007-11-05 12:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lil 5 · 0 0

Pornography is generally intended for a male audience that wants to see women moan and scream, and don't really care what the men are feeling. Porn does not reflect real life sex, though.

Men orgasm every time. Very few women orgasm every time, and some women have never orgasmed. Many women have negative feelings about sex because of this. However, female orgasms are usually more powerful and longer than male orgasms.

2007-11-05 20:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by jellybeanchick 7 · 0 0

its called a movie for a reason... fake!!!!!!
and yes men like sex, we crave it 24/7. I doubt any females do that.

2007-11-05 20:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can't answer this question without bein sexist...

2007-11-05 20:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by shenaynay222 2 · 0 1

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