My god! Gurls, this is getting super, super annoying! How can I make her shut up and tell her the real deal?

Question

Ok so as you know us "women" get our T.O.M.
Well I first started to get mine just in the middle of June. Then the next time I got it, it was more towards the end of July. Then I missed August completely and then when Septemeber came I got it when I was suppose to (in the middle) and that is when my friend got her first one.
So now that was septemeber and then in October I havn't got mine at all through the whole month and my friend has.
NOW, my mom told me that when gurls first get their T.O.M it is really irregular. And as you know usually when you do miss your period you are prenant. Now my friend keeps saying "Wtf are you doing, you pregnant?!" and like its really bad for u to not have it now cuz ur pregnant and crap. ITs like, HELLO i havn't been having sex! Im only 13 here!
So like do you really think im normal? lol
And how can i get my friend to shut her god damn mouth! She's really starting to piss me off!

Any Advice will help me out lots! ♥
-mel

Answer 1

Your Mom is right.I am sure there is nothing wrong.You are normal.As far as your friend goes,IGNORE her.The more she upsets you,the better she likes it.

Answer 2

Yes, you are really normal. If you want to be more normal, take the birth control pill. It evens everything out and makes your periods absent or very, very light. And your friend can't talk about you being pregnant.

I do think your friend should shut up because if anyone hears her say that, your reputation as a "good girl" would be gone in 2 seconds flat. And then all the "bad boys" who just want sex will be hanging around...

I'd explain that calmly to your friend and if she does it again, tell her in a mean voice, let it slip again, and I'll let loose a vicious rumor about you. Won't that be fun?

Or, stop telling her when you have your period.

TX Mom

Answer 3

Well just dont tell her when your period is on. I mean yea she's your friend but she doesnt HAVE to know when your period comes or not.

If she's not mature enough to talk seriously about periods then dont even mention it to her.

If you dont have it just tell her you do or dont answer the question. Its not like she's ur mom or something.